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Yaka · 17th Feb 2013, 21:10

man this is so sad, i began to cry when i read the first post and so did the wife

cant find words to say what i feel but hope you and your wife find peace some how.

G0UDG · 17th Feb 2013, 21:53

My sincere condolences on your sad loss Kay

Tyinsar · 5th Mar 2013, 16:50

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Andy Mc · 8th Mar 2013, 04:49

I feel for you there.

We had a bit of a close call when my youngest was born in November '11. Wife had issues with our first with her heart rate dropping quite low so thankfully her GP sent her over to Great Western for an echo on her heart when she was pregnant with our 2nd.

Lucky really as the nurse found a tumor. Less than 4 weeks later she had a c-section, 2 months before the due date, followed by heart surgery 5 days later. It was crazy during the C-section as we counted 21 medical staff in the heart surgery theater. They had the cardio team in case there was issue and the various pediatric teams for my son.

Son spent a month in intensive care before he could come home. The care from the John Radcliffe was nothing short of exceptional and we did some PR stuff for the hospital.

He's been back in a few time with chest infections and it's starting to become a recurring theme. The first time he was in with pneumonia was a right pain as when the dr x-rayed his chest they found a rib had been broken at some point, and the Dr at Swindon really didn't handle the situation at all delicately. It was a good thing I was at work as I'd have gone nuts at the accusation, which in hindsight would not have been the best move.

Thankfully the Cardio Dr from Oxford who arranged all my wifes OPs stepped in a said it most likely happened during the birth (the surgeon did an odd procedure of taking the womb out before removing the baby... It was very odd and required a lot of manhandling of my son). needless to say it pissed the team at oxford that delivered my Son but resulted in the investigation being dropped as they could not tell when it happened and the birth was the logical cause. We only found out afterwards that we would not have been able to have taken him home until we were cleared and that the nurses had to keep an eye on us. Really not what you need when your kid is ill in hospital. But it is all because of the failings with the Baby P case.

sotu1 · 8th Mar 2013, 11:23

I'm sorry for your loss Kay, my thoughts and everyone here are with you

Harlequin · 10th Mar 2013, 09:48

It is a far, far better thing that I do, than I have ever done; it is a far, far better rest that I go to than I have ever known.

G0UDG · 14th Mar 2013, 12:48

double post sorry

TheBlackSwordsMan · 28th Mar 2013, 13:33

He made of this earth a better place, a brightest one, by his presence. Cherish your memories my friend, cherish the joyfull moments you had with this ray of light.

17th Feb 2013, 21:53	#42
G0UDG helping others costs nothing Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Kidsgrove,Stoke On Trent Posts: 786	My sincere condolences on your sad loss Kay __________________ Hard to explain to someone who has no clue. Or doesn't believe you. It's a daily struggle being in pain or feeling sick on the inside while you look fine on the outside. Please put this as your signature for at least 1 hour if you or someone you know has an invisible illness (Pancreatitis, Crohn's, PTSD, Anxiety, Bipolar, Depression, Diabetes, LUPUS, Fibromyalgia, MS,Lupus, ME, Arthritis, Cancer, Heart Disease, Epilepsy, Autism,M.D. Evan Syndrome etc.) " Never judge what you don't understand.

5th Mar 2013, 16:50	#43
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8th Mar 2013, 04:49	#44
Andy Mc Ultramodder Join Date: May 2002 Location: In a house. Posts: 1,383	I feel for you there. We had a bit of a close call when my youngest was born in November '11. Wife had issues with our first with her heart rate dropping quite low so thankfully her GP sent her over to Great Western for an echo on her heart when she was pregnant with our 2nd. Lucky really as the nurse found a tumor. Less than 4 weeks later she had a c-section, 2 months before the due date, followed by heart surgery 5 days later. It was crazy during the C-section as we counted 21 medical staff in the heart surgery theater. They had the cardio team in case there was issue and the various pediatric teams for my son. Son spent a month in intensive care before he could come home. The care from the John Radcliffe was nothing short of exceptional and we did some PR stuff for the hospital. He's been back in a few time with chest infections and it's starting to become a recurring theme. The first time he was in with pneumonia was a right pain as when the dr x-rayed his chest they found a rib had been broken at some point, and the Dr at Swindon really didn't handle the situation at all delicately. It was a good thing I was at work as I'd have gone nuts at the accusation, which in hindsight would not have been the best move. Thankfully the Cardio Dr from Oxford who arranged all my wifes OPs stepped in a said it most likely happened during the birth (the surgeon did an odd procedure of taking the womb out before removing the baby... It was very odd and required a lot of manhandling of my son). needless to say it pissed the team at oxford that delivered my Son but resulted in the investigation being dropped as they could not tell when it happened and the birth was the logical cause. We only found out afterwards that we would not have been able to have taken him home until we were cleared and that the nurses had to keep an eye on us. Really not what you need when your kid is ill in hospital. But it is all because of the failings with the Baby P case. __________________ Main: Q6600\|4gb OCZ Flex II\|Asus P5Q\|Antec P190\|EVGA 460OC 768mb HTPC: Q6600\|4gb\|Gigabyte G31 Mobo\|Coolermaster Elite 360\|Sapphire ATI 5450 512mb

8th Mar 2013, 11:23	#45
sotu1 Ex-Modder Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Bournemouth and London Posts: 2,516	I'm sorry for your loss Kay, my thoughts and everyone here are with you __________________ wc206 on Steam and bawnslippy1 on Origin.

10th Mar 2013, 09:48	#46
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17th Feb 2013, 21:10	#41
Yaka Supermodder Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: a very dark place Posts: 357	man this is so sad, i began to cry when i read the first post and so did the wife cant find words to say what i feel but hope you and your wife find peace some how.

14th Mar 2013, 12:48	#47
G0UDG helping others costs nothing Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Kidsgrove,Stoke On Trent Posts: 786	double post sorry __________________ Hard to explain to someone who has no clue. Or doesn't believe you. It's a daily struggle being in pain or feeling sick on the inside while you look fine on the outside. Please put this as your signature for at least 1 hour if you or someone you know has an invisible illness (Pancreatitis, Crohn's, PTSD, Anxiety, Bipolar, Depression, Diabetes, LUPUS, Fibromyalgia, MS,Lupus, ME, Arthritis, Cancer, Heart Disease, Epilepsy, Autism,M.D. Evan Syndrome etc.) " Never judge what you don't understand. Last edited by G0UDG; 14th Mar 2013 at 12:59. Reason: double post

28th Mar 2013, 13:33	#48
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