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Evolutionsic · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:11

So heres the jist, Was on omegle messing about with a few mates, met some girl, things got going, My friends egging me on, pushing me into no withdraw, exchanged msn's, Now shes catching a train down to stay with me from london, on a saturday, She's also going to the uni opening day, Then i have to provide entertainment for the rest of the day exc,

Exchanged mobile numbers, and said "I'm relying on you, else i'll be sleeping on the street

Now here's the problem, I'm shy as hell, I wouldn't of done this if my mates weren't pushing me into it, I'm insecure as hell, I've been with girls before but that's normally after a night out drinking, meeting them though friends exc, I do really like her though,

I need advise please? I'm pretty worried,

Ph4ZeD · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:13

Worried? I'd say you got guaranteed sex coming your way brother! Suit up, your going in.

Nexxo · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:14

She seems to like you enough to come over. I think you're in there.

Don't worry. If it goes well you'll have a great time and possibly a girlfriend. If things don't go so well it wasn't meant to be, and no harm done.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

M7ck · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:14

Buy some durex and enjoy yourself.

Jipa · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:20

I know your pain for being shy and insecure. Then again, if the girl is nice and you really like her, it'll probably work out somehow. Or then not, what have you got to lose? Personally I'm damn shy, but some people are just easy to talk to, hope she's the kind.

Burnout21 · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:21

Ah problem, one night stand will fail as she won't get up and leave before you wake. Hence very quiet, mute breakfast and unsure departure at train station.

Suggest, let her decide the morning then plan to go eat somewhere later that evening, few drinks and then seal the deal.

During the afternoon, i suggest shopping at all the crazy places around, never know might get her trying on stuff in ann summers and such?

Otis1337 · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:29

lucky motherf**ker!
BUT i don't see how this is 100% guaranteed sexy time. 50/50 imo, girls seem get your hopes up, then watch you fall from cloud 9.

BTW dude, keep your wallet/money out of sight! its happened to my mates, and you don't really know her, just keep your wits about you mate! and good luck!

Burnout21 · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:32

lol, she travels down with her massive boy friend and when the times right not only does he get mugged but also the biggest ass raping of his life.

Jokes aside for a minute,

Yeah its wise to stay in public area's, and if anything is going to happen make sure she says yes, last thing you want is her feeling pressured into it due to the situation and then filing a rape allegation against you.

Mr Happy · 3rd Oct 2010, 19:44

Viagra, get some, prepare the area, dont look like the Zohan

Show who is boss, go for it mate

let us know how you get on ok

Evolutionsic · 3rd Oct 2010, 20:00

I'm meeting her at the train station, my place is just up the road, So its pretty fool proof, she might find it a bit weird she'll be staying in my room, with just a single bed, and a open shower, and sink.

I have bought a new rug and bed sheets which make it a bit more homely, heres an idea of the room

What do you think i should plan for the day, Do you think its wise to go out clubbing as shes just turned 18, or just go for a meal and then the cinema and walk along the sea front?

I've not really got the mindset for this...

Nealieboyee · 3rd Oct 2010, 20:00

Unless a girl is totally comfortable around you, i doubt she'd be staying at your house alone.....with you.

Nike......JUST DO HER!

edit: you posted while i was typing. Was the original plan to let her take the single bed and you sleep on the floor? That just won't do..

Get some

Otis1337 · 3rd Oct 2010, 20:12

Don't make out your just after sex or you may make her feel awkward or uncomfortable.
Offer her your bed, tell her it has new sheets ect, but don't say where you will sleep till you have to, or she ask's... and unless its blindingly obverse that shes after a good shag, say "erm on the floor or something i guess" and see what she say's.

If stuff goes to plan, she will reply along the lines of "well we can share the bed"...... bam right you can! :P

Good luck

Evolutionsic · 3rd Oct 2010, 20:20

Thanks guys, I shall next reply with the how it went, so you guys can either laugh at me, or be proud of a fellow bit tech member, thanks for the support.

Burnout21 · 3rd Oct 2010, 20:34

lol, yeah offer her your bed whilst stood in the door way, that way she can say good night or invite you in.

Otis1337 · 3rd Oct 2010, 20:49

best of luck!

MaverickWill · 3rd Oct 2010, 20:50

Pfft. Don't offer her the option to kick you out on to the floor. You could always suggest top-to-toe. Or an air-bed/blanket solution, as a worst-case scenario.

But yes, be prepared. And make sure the box of johnnies is already opened - that fumbling around with cellophane wrap is the absolute WORST.

RichCreedy · 3rd Oct 2010, 20:56

just see how things pan out when she turns up.

i met my current wife online, she was going to stay with a friend of hers who let her down, i offered her a place to stay, for the trip, she had planned, we hit it off and have been together since nov 2001

Booga · 3rd Oct 2010, 21:00

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evolutionsic

Thanks guys, I shall next reply with the how it went, so you guys can either laugh at me, or be proud of a fellow bit tech member, thanks for the support.

Expect nothing and don't worry.

thehippoz · 3rd Oct 2010, 21:49

yeah don't expect anything blue ball boy

and watch out for the herpes

kingred · 3rd Oct 2010, 22:04

inb4 buttraped by massive guy

3rd Oct 2010, 19:11	#1
Evolutionsic Kid that won't just go away! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Devon, Plymouth Posts: 1,536	Girl coming to stay with me So heres the jist, Was on omegle messing about with a few mates, met some girl, things got going, My friends egging me on, pushing me into no withdraw, exchanged msn's, Now shes catching a train down to stay with me from london, on a saturday, She's also going to the uni opening day, Then i have to provide entertainment for the rest of the day exc, Exchanged mobile numbers, and said "I'm relying on you, else i'll be sleeping on the street Now here's the problem, I'm shy as hell, I wouldn't of done this if my mates weren't pushing me into it, I'm insecure as hell, I've been with girls before but that's normally after a night out drinking, meeting them though friends exc, I do really like her though, I need advise please? I'm pretty worried, Last edited by Evolutionsic; 7th Oct 2010 at 17:55.

3rd Oct 2010, 19:14	#3
Nexxo There is no rep for awesomeness. Moderator Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Birmingham, UK Posts: 22,507	She seems to like you enough to come over. I think you're in there. Don't worry. If it goes well you'll have a great time and possibly a girlfriend. If things don't go so well it wasn't meant to be, and no harm done. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. __________________ "You actually hope to achieve your ideals, I just use mine as an excuse to hate everything" --specofdust "Right wing Republicans, all the murderousness of nut-job Iranian ayatollahs, none of the bearded coolness" --specofdust

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3rd Oct 2010, 19:20	#5
Jipa Avoiding the "I guess.." since 2004 Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Tampere, Finland Posts: 6,272	I know your pain for being shy and insecure. Then again, if the girl is nice and you really like her, it'll probably work out somehow. Or then not, what have you got to lose? Personally I'm damn shy, but some people are just easy to talk to, hope she's the kind. __________________ Half a dozen operational setups and truckloads of spare parts. AllTheMods - MetkuMods - LedCalc - Flickr - BF:BC2

3rd Oct 2010, 19:21	#6
Burnout21 Is the daddy! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Bindi's cupboard Posts: 8,084	Ah problem, one night stand will fail as she won't get up and leave before you wake. Hence very quiet, mute breakfast and unsure departure at train station. Suggest, let her decide the morning then plan to go eat somewhere later that evening, few drinks and then seal the deal. During the afternoon, i suggest shopping at all the crazy places around, never know might get her trying on stuff in ann summers and such? __________________ Project log Mocha70 Workstation: Q6600, DFI P45-T2RS Plus, 8GB Reaper HPC, Quadro FX3450, 60Gb Vertex 2 Game: i7 930, GA-X58-USB3, 12GB Kingston, GTX280, 1Tb Seagate, WC

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3rd Oct 2010, 19:13	#2
Ph4ZeD Banned Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 3,806	Worried? I'd say you got guaranteed sex coming your way brother! Suit up, your going in.

3rd Oct 2010, 19:29	#7
Otis1337 aka - Reaper Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: UK Posts: 2,178	lucky motherf**ker! BUT i don't see how this is 100% guaranteed sexy time. 50/50 imo, girls seem get your hopes up, then watch you fall from cloud 9. BTW dude, keep your wallet/money out of sight! its happened to my mates, and you don't really know her, just keep your wits about you mate! and good luck! __________________ Asus 660ti DCUIIOC::Core i7 920 D0::Asus P6T SE x58::Patriot Viper DDR3 6GB 1600Mhz CoolerMaster 850W RealPower::CoolerMaster Cosmos 1000-W::Sammy F3 1TB::Asus Xonar D2 - Asus Vulcan::SONY PS3 40GB PSN: otis1337::Sony DSC-H20 Camera

3rd Oct 2010, 19:32	#8
Burnout21 Is the daddy! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Bindi's cupboard Posts: 8,084	lol, she travels down with her massive boy friend and when the times right not only does he get mugged but also the biggest ass raping of his life. Jokes aside for a minute, Yeah its wise to stay in public area's, and if anything is going to happen make sure she says yes, last thing you want is her feeling pressured into it due to the situation and then filing a rape allegation against you. __________________ Project log Mocha70 Workstation: Q6600, DFI P45-T2RS Plus, 8GB Reaper HPC, Quadro FX3450, 60Gb Vertex 2 Game: i7 930, GA-X58-USB3, 12GB Kingston, GTX280, 1Tb Seagate, WC

3rd Oct 2010, 19:44	#9
Mr Happy :-) Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Gordon Freeman Posts: 1,114	Viagra, get some, prepare the area, dont look like the Zohan Show who is boss, go for it mate let us know how you get on ok

3rd Oct 2010, 20:00	#10
Evolutionsic Kid that won't just go away! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Devon, Plymouth Posts: 1,536	I'm meeting her at the train station, my place is just up the road, So its pretty fool proof, she might find it a bit weird she'll be staying in my room, with just a single bed, and a open shower, and sink. I have bought a new rug and bed sheets which make it a bit more homely, heres an idea of the room What do you think i should plan for the day, Do you think its wise to go out clubbing as shes just turned 18, or just go for a meal and then the cinema and walk along the sea front? I've not really got the mindset for this...

3rd Oct 2010, 20:00	#11
Nealieboyee Packaging Master! Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Lusaka, Zambia Posts: 2,998	Unless a girl is totally comfortable around you, i doubt she'd be staying at your house alone.....with you. Nike......JUST DO HER! edit: you posted while i was typing. Was the original plan to let her take the single bed and you sleep on the floor? That just won't do.. Get some __________________ Bonnie i3-2100T \| H61M-P31 \| 4GB DDR3 1333MHz \| 60GB OCZ Agility 3 SSD \| GTX 260

3rd Oct 2010, 20:12	#12
Otis1337 aka - Reaper Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: UK Posts: 2,178	Don't make out your just after sex or you may make her feel awkward or uncomfortable. Offer her your bed, tell her it has new sheets ect, but don't say where you will sleep till you have to, or she ask's... and unless its blindingly obverse that shes after a good shag, say "erm on the floor or something i guess" and see what she say's. If stuff goes to plan, she will reply along the lines of "well we can share the bed"...... bam right you can! :P Good luck __________________ Asus 660ti DCUIIOC::Core i7 920 D0::Asus P6T SE x58::Patriot Viper DDR3 6GB 1600Mhz CoolerMaster 850W RealPower::CoolerMaster Cosmos 1000-W::Sammy F3 1TB::Asus Xonar D2 - Asus Vulcan::SONY PS3 40GB PSN: otis1337::Sony DSC-H20 Camera

3rd Oct 2010, 20:20	#13
Evolutionsic Kid that won't just go away! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Devon, Plymouth Posts: 1,536	Thanks guys, I shall next reply with the how it went, so you guys can either laugh at me, or be proud of a fellow bit tech member, thanks for the support.

3rd Oct 2010, 20:34	#14
Burnout21 Is the daddy! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Bindi's cupboard Posts: 8,084	lol, yeah offer her your bed whilst stood in the door way, that way she can say good night or invite you in. __________________ Project log Mocha70 Workstation: Q6600, DFI P45-T2RS Plus, 8GB Reaper HPC, Quadro FX3450, 60Gb Vertex 2 Game: i7 930, GA-X58-USB3, 12GB Kingston, GTX280, 1Tb Seagate, WC

3rd Oct 2010, 20:49	#15
Otis1337 aka - Reaper Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: UK Posts: 2,178	best of luck! __________________ Asus 660ti DCUIIOC::Core i7 920 D0::Asus P6T SE x58::Patriot Viper DDR3 6GB 1600Mhz CoolerMaster 850W RealPower::CoolerMaster Cosmos 1000-W::Sammy F3 1TB::Asus Xonar D2 - Asus Vulcan::SONY PS3 40GB PSN: otis1337::Sony DSC-H20 Camera

3rd Oct 2010, 20:50	#16
MaverickWill Dirty CPC Mackem Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: /b/ Posts: 2,658	Pfft. Don't offer her the option to kick you out on to the floor. You could always suggest top-to-toe. Or an air-bed/blanket solution, as a worst-case scenario. But yes, be prepared. And make sure the box of johnnies is already opened - that fumbling around with cellophane wrap is the absolute WORST. __________________ Antony's got his hat on, hip, hip, hip, hooray!

3rd Oct 2010, 20:56	#17
RichCreedy Hey What Who Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: lost in the middle of lincolnshire Posts: 3,566	just see how things pan out when she turns up. i met my current wife online, she was going to stay with a friend of hers who let her down, i offered her a place to stay, for the trip, she had planned, we hit it off and have been together since nov 2001

3rd Oct 2010, 21:49	#19
thehippoz Banned Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Fresno, CA Posts: 5,780	yeah don't expect anything blue ball boy and watch out for the herpes

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