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Other What's ruining your life right now?

Discussion in 'General' started by TheMusician, 28 Oct 2009.

  1. MrDomRocks

    MrDomRocks Modder

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    Sucks bro!

    Girls pain in the backside!
     
  2. Unicorn

    Unicorn Uniform November India

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    Vaguebooking? That's a paddlin'.

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  3. TheDodoKiller

    TheDodoKiller Minimodder

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    Some sort of Illness I have at the moment is pretty crap. The worst is that I don't even know what it is. I just keep getting these bouts of sickness and tiredness, that goes away after an hour or two.

    Maybe it's stress related. It's only started since I got my new job, and I've worked 35 hours a week as well as doing a full time college course.
     
  4. MrJay

    MrJay You are always where you want to be

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    Me and the GF have been in our first house for a grand total of 3 months. I've taken to it very well, but she doesn't seem to be happy.

    She feels as if she has been forced into this situation (her parents split up and she had to be out so they could spilt the house). Her dad gave us 75% of our total moving costs, and we are pretty comfortable with the bills etc.

    She seems to be constantly dwelling on rather trivial negatives rather than embrace the idea that we have our own place and have massively lucked out.

    It's starting to ware a bit thin with me, as I get it both barrels on a daily basis.

    I've been an emotional crutch/punching bag in my last relationship. I am a very kind and compassionate individual, however I have become hardened to emotional women. Floods of tears and shouting sound like white noise to me and hardly register on an emotional level.

    I got shouted at, yes shouted at this morning for leaving a used tea bag in my mug. Now I wouldn't mind a polite reminder, but I will not be spoken to like this. Especially as the day previous I did all the house work, shopping, cooking and washing up.

    What do?
     
  5. Ending Credits

    Ending Credits Bunned

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    I really, really want an Evo IV.

    I really, really like my Beat.

    I haven't really got the money to support two cars, and I really, really don't have any need to own two cars (and have access to another).

    You see my problem?

    (CAS may be even worse than GAS)
     
  6. longweight

    longweight Possibly Longbeard.

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    Talk to her about it?
     
  7. jinq-sea

    jinq-sea 'write that down in your copy book' Super Moderator

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    Bloody Sennheiser headphones packing in AGAIN!
     
  8. Taylor Swift

    Taylor Swift What's a Dremel?

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    Lack of funds for hobbies.
     
  9. will_123

    will_123 Small childs brain in a big body

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    Correct. Doing my head in currently. Im at breaking point.
     
  10. Porkins' Wingman

    Porkins' Wingman Can't touch this

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    Experience tells me that this aspect of her character will not change. If anything, it may get worse as time goes by, depending on how her life changes. If this is how she reacts to stress then in the future things like work pressures, babies etc. etc. will probably increase the frequency with which it happens, resulting in your respect for her diminishing, I'm sad to say. Don't mean to piss on yer chips, it's just I'm on the end of similar behaviour at the moment and if it wasn't for baby and insufficient finances I'd be leaving.
     
  11. lilgoth89

    lilgoth89 Captin Calliope

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    being banned from my ''friends'' mumble server for seemingly no reason at all after I accidently logged on this morning...haven't spoke to them since they all removed me on steam when I had my psychotic break...was hoping when im better to mend the bridges...but I guess ''friendship'' means nothing these days, not when it actually involves being there for each other...I shouldn't say much, one of the ''friends'' is a bit-tech mod...so im likely to find myself banned in a few days just like I got kicked out of the clan for absolutely no reason at all other than having a mental break...

    and people wonder why I have trust issues...and why I self harm...and why ive made attempts to take my life...

    I guess friendship isn't whats advertised on the box
     
  12. Porkins' Wingman

    Porkins' Wingman Can't touch this

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    'Friendship' is not a definitive thing, and I doubt any of you signed any agreements when you entered into the friendship in the first place. If bridges need mending then I wouldn't go throwing the toys out just yet - not many bridges can be mended in a day, and most involve some amount of work.
     
  13. MrDomRocks

    MrDomRocks Modder

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    The only mumble server I know ran by anyone in regards bit tech is the one that I run with Votick for Bit Tech Community as a whole.



    Also my own woes. Found in chip in side panel paint work. Not my doing. Will take a photo shortly.
     
  14. IanW

    IanW Grumpy Old Git

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    I am informed that there are certain "specialist" websites for that sort of thing. :worried:
     
  15. mrbungle

    mrbungle Undercooked chicken giver

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  16. PureSilver

    PureSilver E-tailer Tailor

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    You have a Honda Beat? That's awesome! I'll take good care of it for you, and if you need it back, just call! :clap:
     
  17. KayinBlack

    KayinBlack Unrepentant Savage

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    Selecting a picture for my son's grave marker. He was such a happy child.

    We're learning to live without him, but it's really hard. He was the greatest thing that ever happened to me.
     
  18. Weekly_Estimate

    Weekly_Estimate Random bird noises.

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    Signed up to do a apprenticeship involving changing wheels on cars and brick laying led me to a website with login details now I have to do some English course, maths course and an ict course, and it won't finish until I've gone though it all and achieved what they think is acceptable. Damnit

    Speaking to my partner apparently everyone has to do it and it doesn't matter what you get meh
     
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  19. MrDomRocks

    MrDomRocks Modder

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    All apprenticeships require those if you are under the age of 25. I believe anyway.
     
  20. RedFlames

    RedFlames ...is not a Belgian football team

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    The courses, assuming they're the same or similar to the ones I had to endure are a load of patronising bollocks that amount to [essentially] 'Can You read?', 'Can you count to 10 without using your fingers?' and 'Can you use Google?'.
     

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