I just had a phone call with a woman I've never met before in my life. We talked for 4 hours ! 4 hours !!!! WTF !? We're going to meet on Saturday ... I'm really nervous. This is just like when I met my ex gf, exept we never phoned 4 hours in a row ... the first time ... I sure hope she meets my visual expectations ... oh well, I'll see on Saturday. Cheers Fred
Was this some random phone call, like a wrong number or something, and you just ran with it for four hours? If so, congrats on getting a date out of it. Good luck And let us know if she meets your expectations!
I can't stand being on the phone for more than 30 seconds, my ears would fall off at the 2 hour mark. At 4 hours my head would explode. So yes, you are crazy .
Four hours? Thats it? With all my previous girlfriends, we'd talk for upwards of 6. And that was 4+ times a week! So no, you are not nuts. usualy there was some 'fun' involved in the phone calls though
Humm, that would of helped things immensely, but when they arn't even in the same country (not permanately), it gets kinda hard ya know? But then there are times when you just want to talk, and both of you have got other obligations, but yet still have access to a phone. And I must say, it's intersting to go about your daily routene with a phone in your ear, consistantly talking to somebody you love, and still trying to concentrate on other things, like that annoying 'life' you hear about.
Na, t'was a person I met in the net. Saw her picture, so I kindof know what she look like, but still reality is a lot more different than a picture. I've never phoned for 4 hours ... not even with my ex. But then again, I spent more time with her, than on the phone so that doesn't really count ... I sure hope she does. I know she's 1,73m, blond, has brown eyes and a "normal" figure ... I'm 1,93m ... oh well, at least she's not 1,60 or smaller. It's so damn hard finding "big" girls ... I like them when they're 1,80 ... that's the right size ;-) Well I'll see tommorrow ... Cheers Fred
HAHAHA pwned. Twas what i was gonna say. Actually being there would a) cost less than a phone call unless its long distance and b) physical presence is infinately times better than having ur ear talked off.
A phone is a tool that is used to determine when and where you will actually meet in person to continue your conversation
Yup. Good call. They do say that 90% of communication is non-verbal - you lose out a lot by not being able to see one another's body language, facial expression, make eye contact, whatever. Plus there's the obvious reason why it's better to spend real time with your g/f rather than on the phone
I don't think your mad im getting on very well with some one from the net. But my lips are sealed due to the viewers of this forum
Oh well ... we wanted to meet on Saturday, but she couldn't because her grandpa had to go to hospital. Cancer. We wanted to meet today, but because noone knows how long her gramps is going to live, she wanted to visit him. So we postponed the meeting for next Saturday. She called me up to tell me and we talked for 2 hours again. I talked about that with a female friend of mine and she said she probably does want to meet me, cause if she didn't she wouldn't have called ME. In any case my ex and her new one alsready had sex after only 2 weeks and they've only seen one another 3 times ... great eh ? But at least it wasn't as good as with me. she didn't say it directly, but the way she talked about it was obvious. Well anyway I'm sure he isn't the right guy for her, although they have many things in commen, the things he says and the things he does do not match. I believe he just wants to play with her. Sure she would have deserved it, but alas I can't turn off my feelings for her, even though she f***ed me good ... Relationships, Love and Feelings. F*** em all - I could do without em ! Fred
Man you're bitter. She went out with you, she screwed you around, you split up. It happens. Don't wanna be harsh but get over it. She's not worth the heartache man. And seriously, if you're still this messed up about it, you shouldn't be starting anything up with someone new. Chances are you'll end up hurting her, and she doesn't deserve that does she? Give it some time, concentrate on yourself, your mates and your family, and in time you'll be ready to meet someone new
If you're discussing these type of matters with her even after you've broken up, then she is nothing but a negative impact on your life. As you've probably been told countless times already, move on ('on' being as far away from her as possible).
