Ive had a stalker too, although i'm male and she was female. Used to follow me home and such, send strange text messages at stupid hours of the morning. She just stoped one day fortunatly. My cousin however had one of the bad stalkers, this guy used to follow her about everywhere, hang about outside her house, go find her at collage, bother her at work, bombard her with calls, messages and letters. She had police involved but this did not seem to detter him, even when he was cautioned and told not to go anywhere near her. One day me and my dad saw him in the street, he was leaning up against a shop front near where my cousin used to work. My dad approached him and stood right in front of him, didnt touch him or even stay a word and just staired him down. The guy didnt even lift his head, looked at the floor the hole time. He started to cry and wouldnt stop apologising, this lasted for a good 2/3 mins then my dad walked off without doing anything. We had met eachother befor so he knew exactly who we where. Never botherd my cousin again. I wouldnt recomend confronting the person, i'd go for the police route first, my dad could have gotten himself in allot of trouble just for looking at the guy. (such is the messed up land in which we live).
As tempting as it sounds, I'm not gonna do that. He doesn't seem like the REALLY creepy type, but if he starts following her, I'll definitly tell the police. I don't want some random freak following my GF around. Since I live 40 mins away from her, I can't be around all the time to stop him from doing anything stupid.
My partner gets stalked by her ex and has done on and off for the last 4 years, it really isnt easy getting them to stop like most people thing. Blocking his number, he gets a new sim. Get the police involved, he will stop for a bit and again change numbers. Eventually the police got to a point where they didnt even bother. (thats just a local issue of the police around here being rubbish mind you.) confronting him about, makes it worse, at least in our case and has led to 1 punch up between me and him. Just pray and hope your stalker isnt a complete sad ass with no life otherwise its hell.
My girl friend has this at college, well before facebook existed. The 'mole' as we called him kept thinking she would be better off with him, leaving her gifts in her bag, send txt's and writing letters. what I didn't know was this had been going for a while, but she never told me as she didn't want me going off on one, she ignored him. Then on her birthday he had the cheak to get her a necklace and write a letter about how she should leave me! Problem is a found it before my girlfriend did, i asked her about it and she explained all, i knew it meant nothing and it had clearly been annoying her for sometime. The letter said for her to meet him near the back gate of college that lunch time, so i went down there just before the lunch hour and waited just out of site for him to appear. When he turned up i stuffed the letter in his face along with the cheap tat of a necklace and told him this was his first official warning before it gets messy. I felt bad afterwards because he genuinely crapped his pants, he is only 5'' 4in, extremely fat and looked like a mole with glasses, me being 6ft i kinda towered over him. It worked but i am not happy it came to that, i was just so pissed off as it had ruined her birthday, and we were all in the college. I felt like breaking his legs, but i know better. eventually he switched his attention to another girl in my group of friends, bugged her for bloody ages and i stepped in there again and had to tell him to take a hike.
Find out where he lives then at night, pour petrol through his letterbox with a hose and light it. Or mail him a hundred scorpions.
Naa, I like the thought of writing "DIE" with petrol in his garden and then lighting it on fire in the middle of the night. Sorry, it can't be possible for someone this sad-assed to have balls in the first place. Edit: Or to be brutally honest. My favourite is tying up said non-existing balls with fishing wire, and then lowering him in small increments from somewhere suitably high. Like a watertower. Or a flagpole.
I once heard of someone writing the word "W**KER" on his neighbours lawn with grass seed. Apparently the neighbour came out and hosed the lawn to get rid up the word, and the word was still visible for months afterwards as healthy green patches !
If, as I think you said you did, know where he lives, do this. Ring on his door, ask for him and just stare at him. Nearly every single person doesn't like being stared at for a long period of time. If he doesn't know who you are then tell him you're the "boyfriend of your'f*ck-buddy'" then just stare at him. He may be provoked to violence, if so, walk away. This is if he continues after blocking his phone, Facebook etc. and maybe after involving the police (only if those don't work, because for the weak and lazy stalkers, they usually do).
Psych him out, brilliant tactic! The human mind is our most powerful tool, it's also our greatest weakness.
Oh well. Yesterday she recieved 16 texts from him just asking "Why?". After this, she, without my knowledge, told him that if he didn't stop she would get his boyfriend to assault him. I don't really consent with this, but it seems to have stopped him. Or, he might just be gearing up for round 2. :-/
your too nice picarro.. I dunno how they do it over there but over here, you just go over the guys house just the fact he used the words **** buddies with your girl is enough for a ass kicking.. not saying that's the way to go but it needs to stop =]
Yeah well, I am not exactly the most imposing figure. 179 cms and 70 kg. And the weight is from my thigh muscles since I run a lot. I guess I could woop his ass, but I am not really keen on trying anything. The next time I hear her complaining about receiving new texts, I'll just call him and let him know that I find it unacceptable to keep annoying my GF. After this, I might consider the phone-in-rear-cavity stuff. Edit: Or I'll mail him a couple of pics of my black belt Taekwondo mate, who has got the most terrifying and imposing figure I can imagine. He'll surely help with the ass-wooping.
Sounds like you could open a whole can of whoop-ass on someone with 70Kg thigh muscles. Several cans in fact!
Yeah well, if I kick him in his nuts, he's gonna walk around with 3 adam apples until he can get a surgery :-/
