...feeling lonely right about now? I certainly am. It seems like absolutely everyone I know is pairing off with someone else. It's not like I'm not happy for them, but it gets a little depressing when all I can see is them and their partner sucking eachothers faces off. It feels like it's getting to the point where I can't escape it anymore, even people on the net are getting partners... I feel like I'm the only single one I know and it really sucks. I don't know about you lot but sometimes I get really down, like I'm always going to be lonely and there's just no point in wishing for a bf. I just get so depressed.. Being gay makes it no easier - much harder in fact. I don't know where to look for guys that'd be compatible... there isn't really a gay scene here at all, and I'm the only one in my year that's had the guts to come out of the closet, so to speak. I've had a rough time and I want someone to love me, and someone for me to love... Anyone else on here feeling lonely?
I can imagine it being quite depressing when everyone around you has a partner. I know a few of my friends used to get quite unhappy when everyone started spending more time with their partners and seemed to have less time to hang out like they used to. While it may seem like you're going to be lonely forever, you're still quite young, and I'm sure a lot of males that are thinking they're gay at your age aren't going to let anyone else know until they're a bit older so they don't get the piss ripped out of them by their friends. Give it a bit more time. When you reach uni, you'll find a lot more oppertunities.
To have an attraction to the opposite sex is an inbuilt animal response for the procreation of the human race. I just remember this fact and that i dont need a mate atm Would be nice to have someone, but just have to wait a bit longer
and just think of all the money you can spend on shiney bits of computer with all the money you save being single!
You know what sucks even more ? It's when your loved one goes out with some of her female friends and NONE of your own stupid, boring, suckers you call friends has time or the ambition to go out and have fun, cause they all act as if they're 50 although they're only 23 - 25 ... That is frustrating and it makes me really anrgy. But to get back on topic - yes I know that feeling and it's crap ! Cheers Fred
Don't get down M3G4, we all go though this at some point in our lives. What you have to do right now is ask yourself this question: what will make me happiest. And listen to what you have to say to yourself, and I do mean truely listen. Then do it. Without reguard for anybody else, just do it. You'll feel a lot better for it, and in the end you'll realise, the world isn't a lonely place, infact, it's quite teaming with life, love, and every thing else a person needs to keep sane. As for finding somebody else to mate with, look no further than the closest person to you right now, look to your friends, do you know anybody who seems to allways have time for you? Maybe you just know somebody who has a night off saturday. The point is, don't limit your options, try and be as open as you possably can be, without exposing yourself to too much harm. And even if you do get burned out, remember that if it hurts, it just means that you've learned something, and in the end it was proably worth it. We all need somebody to love, and somebody to love us, but not everybody has that. It makes me truely sad when I see something like this. I've strugled personaly with a simmilar problem, as for the past 5 years I have been very alone in the world, mother hated me, father dissowned me, friends all left me, I can't remember how many times I tried to commit suicide. I thought there was no way out, that I would forever be trapped in that situation, but then I found the person for me, and I am very happy with her. So just remember, there is somebody out there for you, you will just find eachother when both you and him are ready. Life has no preset plan, true, but things do happen for a reasion, so there is no point in giving up now. Cheer up, I'm here for you, we're all here for you. Don't be afraid to ask for any advice on anything. And good luck to you.
I find relationships a neccessary evil. Of course I did just get out of a relationship so my view might be a little skewed .
I've been feeling the same recently... sometimes I don't care, other times I do. But the way I see it, if it lasts forever, who cares... more money in my bank account!
I actually was... until a couple days ago. I realized that I am not, under any circumstance, going to waste my time/energy/money on any girl who is not clearly more amazing than my best friend, whom I think is the most amazing person on the face of the earth. (I trust no one as much as I trust her, she's been there for me any time for any reason, no one else has ever done that for me). And the fact is, I'm probably not going to meet anyone as amazing as she for quite some time... which means I'll be alone through a good chunk of college, which means I'll have more money, more time, and more energy for school... a win-win-win situation... If you happen to meet a girl who's that incredible and was meant to be, she'll wait for you, don't sit around wallowing because you haven't run into the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with, you will, it just takes time. (edit and adapt in your head as necessary to fit, these are the thoughts in my head)
Thanks for the support guys!! It just all gets to me sometimes. I'm usually a little stronger than this Thanks for the support and comments
Never mind mate...As soon as we get our rented accommodation, the girlie's will not know what has hit them. wOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOt!!!!!!
I know the feeling exactly... I used to think that no one could ever like me, but eventually even I found someone who did. Just do something else with your time instead of being down. Relationships are overrated anyway. Take it easy
