LOL - using that theory I should be surrounded by women all the time as my mates call me the glowstick ninja in relation to my clubbing and raving antics What you need to do is go out with her mate.... this drives them wild and then they come running back to you
Got a particular girl in mind? Don't do what I did not so recently. I went out job hunting, then met up with a mate from college. Got on the train home, and saw someone whose kinda my ex but not. Due to me being excessivly drunk on double whisky, suffice to say, things are a tad more awkward now.
I would say don't bother, if you have broke up once it will probably happen again, move on and forget about her, harsh I know but thats my advice.
leave if for a few years and then get to know her again. Only way if you properly broke up first phase: have a few girlfriends that she will know about but never tell her about them (increases jealousy factor), keep in enough contact so that if the target girl moves/changes here number she will tell you and not just disappear. Confide in your freinds that the sham relationships never rearly interested in you and hint that you rearly want to get over target girl - hopefully word will eventually wind itself to target girl if you get the contact factor just right. 2nd phase: (if target is not seeing anyone) stop messing around with the other girls and have a month of emo'ness where you appear rearly down, avoid friends enough for them to talk behind your back etc. Again if contact factor is right word will reach target. 3rd phase: cheer up and align your hobbies and interests more with targets, move into her circle of freinds casualy chat with her from time to time - NEVER end up alone with target this must be avoided at all costs during this phase! 4th: improve appearance, spend extended periods of time with target when apropriate 5th: allow yourself a short test period alone with target - if conversation is natural and flowing just keep allowing longer and longer periods as the target is ensnared. this plan takes several years but appears to work, only attempt it though if you are only in it for the game like me and not for romantic attachment as if successful you will be disappointed by how easy it was (I always am no matter the conquest) and want to move on... which is abit of a waste of years work and manipulating 10's of people!
Well we were together, but it was a looooong time ago, and it didn't last very long, because neither of us could see each other, because of distance and money ETC.
Sounds like kipman is talking from his own experiences. Really though you shouldnt be looking to be getting back together with someone who you broke up with as all that says is that your relationship doesnt work out with them and your not over it which could end with you missing a chance that could have ended out better.
+1 If the relationship has gone dead, there's little point on trying to patch it up. If you were married, then it's a different ball game. Don't worry there are plenty more fish in the sea. Keep trying, till you find the right one. If your lucky enough to find a soul mate, it just gets better and better. Good luck.
True, if me and that psycho would have stayed broken up this time last week then last weekend would have been a lot better. She snapped and started throwing crap at me and taking a few swings, bent up my glasses and even threatened to call the cops. FYI: When a control freak looses control over someone then they loose control of themselves and takes it out on the someone.
rohypnol if your not to bothered about the level of interactivity you want. Rope if you have a bit more shake about them. People leave for a reason, there were just not good enough.
If she left you, then she quite obviously didn't accept you the way you are, so why win her back? See this Cabby once told me "It is Allahs will if your relationship to that woman did not work. It means he has someone far better for you just a few miles down the road, be patient" and alas the man was right... so... Forget that woman... enjoy being able to play & mod 24/7 as you please... you'll get a woman again soon enough
Man I just had a thought your on bit tech why not source the parts and build yourself one, that way you can mod a PC into her and have a relationship and game 24/7
