right stew, cards ont he table tiem i have put up with people liek you all my life makign my life hell, pusing me to the brink of suicide & mental breakdowns o what the hell is your problem with me & i do nto ahve delusions of grandure i was alwasy brought up to treat people they way i would want to be treated now just grow up & honestly mate if you havent got anything decent to say then jsut dont, its not that hard
My mother is cool she is never annoying or stupid. I can understand why people get upset when people use names to joke and jibe at homosexual people, it may be a joke to you but is insulting and very painfull to them. My twin brother is gay and he has been happly settled down with his partner for over 4 years.
i think most of our parents arent that bad, my mother has propper taste in music (sayign that i only ordered a vanesa-mae album a couple of days ago ) & my dad is a big kid (it is really nto a good idea to get in my mothers small, fast car with him driving as he turns into boy racer man ) & is this the same brother that you were saying you try to compete with to produce as much volume from your hifi kit with Hlol:
I agree with everything you just said! I always try to get on with people no matter what race,gender,sexual preference etc and People like Stew piss me off when they make fun of other people!!
ah politeness pays off heck im ven polite to the police officers, once i was pulled over for speeding on my scooter (he could ahve had me as i was doing 40 in a 30 zone) but i spent 15 mins laughing & jokign witht he bloke saying jsut hwo good malagutti scooters are, all i got was a producer to produce my documents & nothing else i dont even have a problem with traffic wardens
polic make me nervous cos ive been copy games since i was 5 . . . christ thats scary :-/ (oh thats amoung the 100s of other things ive done wrong )
hehe, my bro and I don't really compete sound wise he has a 2 channel system, I have a full 5.1 seperates in my room. BUT he does have a much better PC than mine, he has a fully kitted out Mini Shuttle XPC.
nope, police dotn bother me, traffic wardens dotn boter me, big issue sellers dotn bother me, beggers dotn bother me (if i hafe spare change i dotn need i give, i mean ok i may live in a rubbish area where you ave to go out armed after dark but im still better off then them) very few peopel other me (the only people who bother me are people who abuse & knock women around [why there arent more lads like mysen who were brough up to be gents i dunno] & another vile type of person that isnt high enough up the evolutionsary scale to be mentioned on these boards) heck most of my mates look at me wierd as if i can afford it when i buy 2nd hand kit i pay jsut enough over the price for the bloek to have a pint on me as he did me a deal so if peopel think i ahve a chip onmy shoulder so be it, me i jsut see myself as a decent human being makign his way though life anyway we have goen really reall off topic so back on topic i hope my parents never grow up there a laugh
but you have more speakers (even if your fascination with subwoofers is vergion obsessivness :hehe j/k m8, well i thought it was funny)
So there's people like you & Sam who strive to please everyone, people like Stew who do nothing but antagonise.... ...Then there are people like me who, outside of a few friends, feel absolutely nothing for others and would rather not have to deal with them on a personal level. *n (message boards are okay because of distance and stuff and disassociation from self...but even chat rooms are starting to annoy me)
i dont strive to please people but you know that one person that everyone knows or at least knows off for good reasons, alwasy willign to put his hand in his pocket, well that me people jsut like mw, saying that i ahve had days when ive put my door though with my fist tho
As far as Im concerned I have stopped using the word 'gay' to refer to anything that is 'pecular in a not so normal way' It gets nowhere and really has no connection. Part of it is my "discovery" that I am bi. I hold no preference over man or woman, although my expierence with one is vastly greater than with the other - probably owing to my 7-year long relationship with my present fiancee, Trio. Yes she knows. But as a Guy I can see where some hangups are, I feel reluctant to go up to guys and say 'The sun shines in your eyes...' without the fear of accosting some homophobic skinhead or the like - No matter how much prodding Trio Gives me. I will admit to respelling the word to GHEY (things like 16-year olds with $30 000 flashy cars that their daddies bought them who like to add to the noise and air poluttion, and the balls to think they are better then I am) to dileneate in my mind the 'peculiar in a not so normal way' from the 'gay' meaning happy or homosexual. Am I evil? Because I almost feel really bad for saying that. I dont eve mean it in a derogatory manner to gay people the two hold completley separate meanings in my head. I also just realized thet evey 'g a y' will probably be censored. I also agree Samuelellis, If there is one thing I hate are those who by chance, luck, sex, or otherwise think they somehow have a right to do something that is so udderly dispicable. Anyone who beats on his wife/girlfriend/fiancee/boyfriend/husband/significant outer/child should have his nuts chopped off by a blind butcher with a dull knife or something as equally distasteful. I tend to feel something for each and every one of the names on this board. Sam's posts take time to decode most of the time but hes a cool bean, my eyes light up anytime I see cheryl, emz, most of the ladies, and even some of the men and tend to read their threads just because they made them. Its almost as if I have went and gone, 'SHE/HE is very friendly in the way they type, they must be good people' and I feel I have a connection, which is why I felt sacked when Issac left. I read that story about the guy on anand? that killed is alter nick off. I figure I would have felt betrayed too. The internet removes inhibitions (heck I just tolld 5000 *cough 1000* people I was bi) only 10 people around me on a daily basis know this, and 5 of them thought I was joking and dont really believe it (I told them through an emal survey.), but it doesent change who the people are underneath. Edit: hmmm gay isnt censored anymore. BTW I think 'double connector' would be a better description of a bisexual, whereas... Im ont going there for fear of offending someone with an attempt a humor. (no really im just trying to be funny. but I still believe double connector is better for a bi)
dbs, I totally get you there. A lot of my friends are bi. I have nothing against this. I see their personal lives as none of my business, and them being my friends has nothing to do with their sexuality. I honestly don't care, but I think of myself as more mature than the people in my school or my area that use the word as an instult to others. I honestly cringe every time i hear someone use it that way. I personally haven't used the word like that for many many years. The people I know from the recently shut down local music scene know better than to use the word like that because they all know someone who is bi. I personally am not Bi, but I see everyone else's views as their opinion, and is all worth understanding.
Where I live, a lot of the kids (when I mean kids I mean anyone from 12 to ~18. this includes my age bracket) use gay as an insult... If I were a more violently orientated person I might lean towards the idea of hitting them, hard. Heres the typical (moronic) insult: So what was the film you saw like? it was GAY, everyone was shooting and swearing -- I didnt like it. This sort of thing only comes out of the 'follow the crowd' sheep. They annoy me no end (especially as my sister likes is one of 'em)
You could have my parents. It was never any fun, and still isn't. My father is just a hardened war veteran. Everything must be orderly and done a certain way. Bedtime is 9pm and you must wake up at 6-7am stuff. It's apparently proper as nothing can be done at night... Not sure how this works really. I've tried waking up early and going to bed early. All that ever accomplishes is me being bored out of my mind. I'm more productive at night. If I need to do something during the day, I will, if not, what's the point? He is very strict about things. He is also very selfish. Chores come to mind. I pretty much did everything around the house. He did nothing. I was never even there, yet I still had to clean the place for some odd reason. Something about 'responsibilities'. As if he were expempt from them. He doesn't even have a job. He's gone through so many vehicles, and has always had multiple vehicles, but he would never help me buy one. Well I am stuck with a Honda Civic Stationwagon '84 that, at the moment, won't even start. He even got pissed when I left unexpectedly or didn't tell him where I was. As if I was retarded and couldn't take care of myself. I've pretty much been living alone since I was little. My parents divorced when I was 2 and my father was always at work. From the time I got up to the time I fell asleep I was alone. Not sure why it mattered where I went since he never saw me anyway. I hold a lot of resentment towards him. I truely wish I had never known him. It was always miserable living in his house, even when I tried moving out. My mom on the other hand is just plain annoying. You ask her not to do something and she still does it. Whatever she has her mind set on she will do, permission or not. She can be fun to be with, but I would rather not be. I think I would be better off without my parents. Everything I've learned about life comes from my experiences, not their words. Nothing came from them. The insanity they've made me endure just makes me cringe at the thought of how parents can be so worthless. I personally do not want kids as I'm sure some unwanted traits of theirs have rubbed off on me (short temper from my dad, I know that much). I would never subject something as naive as a child to something as horrific as learning from a bad parent. As you can see I hold a lot of contempt and spite towards my parents. I find it distressing how children are born to parents who shouldn't be.
By the way, its all the same for Straight people, ive walked through some places in Essex with Ex gf's, and been shouted at by Gay people! saying stuff like "***** Lover" and ****! now it works both ways that what you need to remember. *c
Being gay seems to me to be more like a fashion than nething else these days. If I had a tenner for every woman I know who claims to be bisexual I would be a rich bloke. If people make comment about your sexuality then they are more than likely insecure with their own. Although if you are brave enough to 'come out of the closet' then surely you should be able to deal with a little flak?? Especially bearing in mind that it may well be down to THEIR insecurity? [cartman] I've been lickin this carpet for hours and I still don't feel like a lesbian [cartman] If you have seen that episode and dont find that bit amusing then there is something wrong with you!
