My girl friends brother had to move out of his flat back into his girl friends mothers home, so his dad put all the items in his people carrier. On Monday he said i could have the items so i went yeah that'd be good. Then on Tuesday he said "we have a wardrobe a table and other things" i told my girl friend to tell him we don't need another wardrobe we already have 3. She told him and he said well i'm going to drop it off anyway. I told her we don't need another wardrobe we don't have the space. I have a small car i can't just get rid of things when i want. She burst out crying and said "everyones always moaning at me" I replied well i can't tell your dad myself so what am i meant to do? Today comes, We have to be at her doctors for a jab by 11am so we stop at hers quickly just up the road from it at 10.52 and say we'll be back to collect the things after as we didn't need the wardrobe we could fit the rest in the car. He starts instantly moaning at her and being nasty. We jump in the car i drop her to the doctors and tell her we don't need any thing from the van if anything. I said I'll tell your dad, she replies don't you sit in the car and i'll lift it all into the car. I drop her to the doctors after a argument, drive up knock on her dads door tell him, To take all the stuff to the charity shop or tip, i don't care, i don't want it, its causing too much bother! and come home... Now i don't know if i've gone wrong. firstly it seems like hes dumping all his extra stuff on me just to get it out of his way. I've also left her at the doctors so she's got to go home after and face him in a minute not knowing i've spoken to him. Also i don't like the fact that he goes "I have stuff for you" then the next day is moaning at her to get it moved.