ok here's a few piccies to start off with. The fly lead is about 70cm long and the full package comes with the the remote pictured above and the configuration file for winliric (all 38 buttons). There are various controlling software that use winlirc as a driver. The one I prefer is uICE because it is the easiest to setup. Any further info let me know. Meblin
The IR receiver with a fly lead is £9 (inc P&P). For the remote as well add an extra £4 I accept nochex/cash/cheques and PayPal (mainly for Overseas buyers) Meblin