I dunno, I think insecure women "test" potential partners. Doesn't the fact that she did it in the first place sound alarm bells for you? Can you imagine what would happen if a female friend of yours called or sent you a text message if you actually started dating? I was dating a guy who thought he'd test me by getting his (very, very good looking) best mate to hit on me. It was disgusting. Needless to say, that relationship didn't last very long.
She sounds like the type of girl you wouldn't want to leave in your house by herself - do you have good home & contents insurance?
if i was dating a girl i dont talk to others as much in front of her etc, ive some very good girl mates and i wouldn never stop talking to them just i wouldnt do it in front of her if she was my girlfriend, but at moment she not. yea she defiently insecure 100% insecure can you explain this tho what you mean "Doesn't the fact that she did it in the first place sound alarm bells for you?" Whats you're female point of view
no i trust her we been friend for years and kinda unofficially went out in past, i more worried about her breaking my xbox thats what she wants to play while i out she got a liking to guitar hero
Oh, i see now. I may be wrong but it seems she thinks she's above you or maybe even everyone maybe? I'd suggest wearing the pants. If a girl i was going out with asked me to open her beer, i would, no problem. But i'd say something like "So what are you gonna do for me?" If i didn't get a good answer, i'd keep the beer. She may then decide to jump me and try to wrestle the beer from me which is always nice A good answer for some might be a little kiss, or a little lapdance, or maybe for her to bring you a beer, or whatever, you decide if her response is satisfactory. You might get a kiss, and if you want anther you say "one more" or "only one?" etc... I think the above puts the power back in your hand, whilst still being a gentleman that opens her beer. If you test her back with your own version of her game, all you are doing is mimicking/imitating her - trying to be like her - as if she is sooo cool you want to be like her. This only puts even more power in her hands. You need to be YOURSELF - do & say what YOU want, respect yourself. Do what you think a really cool/funny/smart/powerfull (someone you respect) person would do. If she doesn't like the real you, well, nothing lost.
only reason i didnt open it is because 5 min before her friend told me she feels she can make you do anything and you would do it for her so i not even doing simple things which she more than capable off, it was a tin for flip sake
Response: "Do I look like a piano? THEN DON'T PLAY WIT' ME, HO!" Spoiler slap slap slap Seriously though, just leave her the hell alone. Abandon her. Make her come to you if she likes you.
Im doing that, she knows were it is she can come get it, and she already feeling jealous i been told she wondering who texting me all through cinema last night lol
fair enough, but do you see how my suggestion fits well in that situation? What your friend told you confirms that she thinks she's got the upper hand with you!
LOL my female point of view... yegads.. I'm just confused as to why you'd want to date a girl that's testing and playing games with you even before you're in a relationship. Honestly hun.. there are women out there who wont do that. You shouldn't have to feel like you have to "hide" your female friends, either. Whoever you're with should trust you enough not to stray. "Wearing the pants" in a relationship will only make you look like a pig. It wont make you more of a man. Relationships are supposed to be equal.
Some girls like you to do stuff for them. Open this for me, oh thank you sounds like you were just being a dick tbh.
I'm one of those women! "Honey... can you please open the jar for me" "Baby there's a spider can you get it..." Chivalry isn't entirely dead.
When i say wear the pants i don't mean cracking a whip. So would you say mystchic that if my girl asks me to open her beer, and i say "what do get" and she goes "nothing" and i go "then no" and then she gives me a kiss and i open her beer, that that make me a pig, or a romantic guy that wears the pants enough to respect himself, or something else maybe? Girls do like you to do stuff for them, but if you are too nice to girls they will walk all over you - you must not be too nice, you have to demand a little respect.
NO i was not she told me before she was testing me she admitted it herself after, i would have opened it if her friend hadnt warned me, im not a complete idiot!
Punch her in the face and say that she failed the self defense test. I would have opened the beer and drank it myself. Thats like a win win.
Alright, mvagusta, point taken. But you can't always expect something in return. Maybe earning someones respect is better than demanding it. Besides, I don't think it's a good idea to be in a relationship where there's no respect to begin with.
Am I getting this totally wrong here, the "test" was to open a can of lager? It's not exactly hard now is it.
the test was would i do stuff just becasue she demands it, she ordered me not asked and someone said they will open it and she was like no scott has too do it, then when i didnt she said well done you passed my little test which was to see if she can order me around(which strangely is something she dosnt want to be able do).
