I've moved this to the serious section (aka hall of remembrance), to be with kidmod, Wayne and tel. I hope they find each other in what lies after.
I've been given this link by his wife Sarah. Unfortunately it was shuffled into spam messages, so didn't find it until after his funeral (seriously pissed off about that considering the detritus that doesn't get filtered), but you can still leave a tribute, and there's a link to donate to Farleigh Hospice on there too https://ianjudd.muchloved.com/