first of all my modem self destructed (had it since the begining of year 9 & i just finished a 2 yr college course for anyone wondering how old it was) so i had to go & buy a new one, only place open i could get to easily due to it chucking it down today was currys 1 new external modem - my bank account is now -£50:cries: thats not the worst bit, my girlfrend is not answering any of my calls or e-mails:cries: i kno shes reading the e-mails as i send them through love @ lycos (stop lauging now!) & it tells me when there read but she dont reply:cries: im off to sulk:cries: :cries: :cries: :cries: :cries:
Re: Re: Re: life sucks today because her step dad is not right in the head, i got an e-mail from her saying that every tem i phoned her, hes well been i dont wanna say anything else so now im really really worried
look a the bright side....now you can have some time to do what you want without haveing to as for your GF's permission all the time....chill out, hang with the guys for a bit....do some honey watchin.... you know what i think?
never had to ask her permission anyway & guys i am really worried about her & her stepdad & angry (dunno why worry brings on ager in me) /me off to go & punch my punchingbag (yes i kno its 1:17am but worry also turns me inot an insomniac)
sod the bud light ive been downing stella art......cant spell the rest of it when im 100% sober, even harder when youve had a few bottles of the stuff its not working im still miserable & worried, wheres the vodca, i plan on getting totally smashed
i'll give you a little hint, it is written on the bottle, take it one letter at a time... this should work as long as your eyes are still functioning and you aren't typing with your nose... so there is a drunkeness threashold then... j/k m8
nope the drunken-ness threashold i s what i am @ now after a lot of stella & 1/2 a bottle of vodca, i can still see straight & type as well as could before but i kno im @ the threashold as its begining to sound like a good idea to go round her house & beat her step dad senseless see how he likes it /me wonders where my baseball bat is, no-one should hit a woman, anyone who does in my books is scum & deserve a damn good kicking
possibly not a good idea unless you know she is being beaten... it's quite natural for a father to hate a daughters bf (i'd guess) because you're stealing her as it were. If he hasn't touched her then you going round her house with a baseball bat probably wouldn't help ffs go and sleep it off before you do something you shouldn't mmm kay
well the fact i got a rather disturbing e-mail off her saying that every time i phoned (he has her phone now) he would stnad over her & punch her repetedly for the 25 sec until it switched to voicemail but then she accused me on getting off on the fact that her father was beating her & i never knew he had her phone, me confused, me not drunk yet the thing is she wont call the coppers & wont let me do it, if only i had a car i would drive round there, pack her stuff in it & take her away from her step-dad, im @ my whits end on what to do, im powerless as im worried if i try & contact her he will do some ver very serious damage &if i dont try he will keep doing it i need to sober up but even sober i cant think of a way to help her, ive only known her a week as well &im actually in tears im that powerless to help, i did nto pay any attention as to how to get there when we walked to her house sorry for going on but i needed ot get it off my chest before i drove myself mad, just wish i could think of something, someway to help her ignore me if you want lads, im just rambling now
Course of action 1: Taking the initative.(probably not recommended) Well first things first, try walking from where you left... and try and find her house... then stop. (it can't take that long if you walked) You couldn't do anything if you don't know where she lives Then you could try a fairly risky stratedgy... which may or may not work... in that you makesure they are both home, then you say report a disturbance or a suspect assault or something to the police, and repeatedly ring her phone untill the police get there ... at which point you could either watch them try to get in... or lok like a concerned (from what i've heard about your area it'd be a rarity... but not totally implausible) passerby and get them to go in... Hopefully she wouldn't be too badly hurt... but in a suitable state to get them seperated and questioned at the pig station... at which point she has her opportunity to say something. If she doesn't say anything then you're out of luck and proceed to course of action number 3. Course of action 2: Stalking (basically) If you are that concerned you'll want to retrace your steps and find her house and then if she goes out... u follow her... pick your moment and then approach her and have a proper conversation where her dad can't interfer... that might give you some options... or could make you proceed to course of action number 3. Course of action 3: Withdrawl You said you've only known her for a week... it seems to me you're quite attached to her already, but you have to take into account that you beng attached could be making her life hell. Simply put it may be a tough decision but it might be better for her if you stopped contacting her and forgot her. I'm probably giving you really bad advice but i'd prefer it if you didn't go in there baseball bats flying... it ain't clever and it isn't going to do you many favours either. However that said there was a news article fairly recently (2 months??) about a daughter being murdered by her father because of a bf, which begs the question of how much trouble is she in... and what can you do to alieviate it. Hell i've just thought... you could bring in a fouth party (he mother - asuming the mother is there), approach her mother with concern but not total neurotic stalking might help you gauge the situation. (Charm offensive - nice and caring guy who just wants to know she's ok etc) The likelyhood is that her mother if caught alone may be a bit more level headed about i ... ok now i'm talking bull**** tricky situation you've got into
yea ive only known her in person a week but we have been talking online for months (yes i can hera the laugher but people are so fake nowadays & you cant really talk to a lass in a club can you) as much as i hate to admit it alric you may be right about breaking it off (rather break her step-dads legs tho) but as he has permanently scarred her according to one of her e-mails (we havetn been naked together, i still have morals so i cant confirm it) it may be safer for me to break it off but the bit im worried about is shes going to a differnet country wither her mother & step-dad on friday & i really want her to enjoy herself but there is no way i can tell her that as her step dad is nutso that & sher is not replying to e-mails (given up phoning her as its not worth the risk) im going top have to break it off with her & try to get her to go to the coppers ps if you saw her you would be infatuated (i think thats the word) shame some people are, cant even think of a word that i could call him ps i have hospitalised an ex-best friend before, his lass came banging on my door a few years ago, bloody battered, oh she was a state so i sat up with her, talking though it, then let her sleep in my room, i was going to sleep on the sofa but she wanted me to stay there so i slept on my office chair (those things are very uncomfortable) the following morning we went round to her mums, i sat her mum down explained what i had been told & told her i was goign to have a word with him, got round there & he pulled a knife on me, saying what sort of man are you if you havent hit a woman, what cna i say i snapped & fist to the face, foot to the dangleys, knee to the face as he bends, had a good fight, i had a bery broken nose, cuts bruses, 2 broken ribs, the rest were brused & a fractured arm, he was much worse & i got away with it as he did not press charges & i think i did the right thing myself, no real man ever raises there hand in anger to a woman, am i right lads or am i right sorry for ranting i was slightly worse for wear & angry that someone could do that to there step daughter
this kinda thing really ****es me off ... i got a couple of titanium bats that you are welcome to borrow and address the situation with, I would let you use my extendible batons, but I broke both of them adressing different situations.
i know i know its pathetic the only people who i rank lower than him on the eleloutionary ladder (slime is currently higher) is garry glitters (need i say more) i used to help a charity dedicated to getting the garry glitters of this world off the net & well away from childen, my job was general computer bloke, we did a couple of jobs with the police & i had to image some of the hd's (i was 17 @ the time but i was better than the bloke the copeprs had) & setup test stations with exactly the same components so they could do examinations without windows stomping over everthing on the copy of the drive to look for drivers, i only did that once & i am still an imsomiac @ the age of 18 (19 in september) hk- dont worry about it i have one of "those" familys so all i would have to do if i did not want to do it myself was click my fingers & show some of my family the proof, if you think im crazy i hope you never meet any of my cousins, im ver calm & tame compared to most of my family
Yeah I know what you mean, that must be disturbing work man, thankfully I aint come across images like that on the net yet. I think we discussed my fighting background, karate, boxing, urban combat etc.. etc.. well I have made a fair few insane friends in my little life so far, and most of them are hard ****t****, its good to know people like that when unjustly things happen. Anyway man, does all this explain your absence lately ? Your on my buddy list and everytime I used to check my profile there youd be online, and then nothing for a while ... what you been doing ? other than taking over TV networks with your satellite dish.
