+1 I really like this - good, short, simple, and to the point But cmon guys, do we have to go over everything again? I'm talking about the two threads I linked on page 1, one of which is referred to in the title of this thread!!! And seriously Joe Offer a girl he doesn't know, a cookie? Maybe before he starts quoting Hugh Grant, he should also add that the cookies don't contain any rohypnol? You're being about as smooth as sandpaper
Well since you actually have experience with girls I assume once you actually get started talking you will most likely be fine. amiright? For myself I still haven't been able to go up to a girl I don't know and start a conversation, but with girls that I do know but am shy around I just 'Hey what's goin on' and go from there. lol I've never had to introduce myself to a girl but the next time you see her you could go up to her and say Hi and ask if you could sit beside her. Then introduce yourself and ask some questions about her then mention how you were playing some b-ball outside of the school when a couple guys who were up to no good started making trouble in the neighborhood and you got in one little fight and your mom got scared and said your moving in with your auntie and uncle in belair.
Aside from the whole bel-air thing, I think it's pretty solid. Just know when an opportunity arises and take it, it doesn't hurt to introduce yourself. Just as long as you have a starting topic to talk about... For example: She's reading a car magazine(Rare but possible), talk about cars.
lol Actually my secret weapons are that I cook all my meals and they are not just pre-prepared meals and that I am a pilot. Girls love a guy that can cook, that much I have found out
:v "D'you know that the human head weighs 8 pounds?" That's how I start all my 'dates'. That's pretty hilarious, damn. I can imagine what the evening conversations were like. "OMG I JUST WENT TO THE BANK AND THE TELLER WAS TOTALLY HITTING ON ME THE FREAK!!!", "Why, what did he say?" "OH HE KEPT ASKING ME THESE WEIRD QUESTIONS ABOUT WHAT I WAS DOING TODAY AND COMMENTING ABOUT THE WEATHER. I JUST KNOW HE WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT I'D LOOK LIKE NAKED; COVERED IN A LIGHT BUTTER TOFFEE SAUCE!" "Oh really. Do you know something, I think I'll just go spend a couple of hours someplace you aren't."
Close but not that OTT. It was more like... "I was waiting for some friends going to class today and some random guy who was just standing around near where I was started saying Hi and talking. It was really creepy and weird."
Well, I tried talking to her today but all i got was a small smile in return (our bus hit the curb so I said to her in a jokingly manner "well this is a great way to start off the week don't you think.") After that she went back to a normal serious/serious zoned out face. Oh well time to move onto better things.
Meh, atleast she now knows you're alive. That's more than can be said of most bus-travelers. Still, to me meeting someone in a bus seems like something that belongs to disgustingly sweet romantic comedies. It just doesn't happen.
Well I will see her again tomorrow so I will give it one more shot. Also Rogan, 99% of the time I will start conversations with people and won't learn their name until the very end. That may just be the engineering way (since most of us are shy it seems) but so far that is what I have seen. It is very rare that someone says "Hi, my name is <insert name here>... yadda yadda yadda" because around here people who do that are normally Jehovah's witnesses
Your style is your style. I'm just saying you've not got to the point where you can safely admit defeat. Good job so far though man, but don't give up just yet. And outgoing and confident is generally more attractive than shy and nervous, but it doesn't really matter as long as you give it a shot.
Nope kept it the same facing forward, legs crossed at the feet. Mind you this is an empty bus and I was sitting across the way. But it was one thing I was looking for. Like I said, I will give it one more attempt tomorrow but I am not expecting much.
