I feel like an idiot asking this, but... is this right I already fried 2 leds because I wired them wrong; 12v ---------- | | | | L L L L | | | | ---------- ground
It should be +5V -> 100R -> LED -> GND (that was what you displayed in the image), and they shold be parallel. Of course the resistance depends on the voltage and current rating of your LEDs. Make sure that you actually are using the 5V lines. Remember that on fans, the +12V line is red.