Other sex is boring...

Who here is tired of sex? It's overrated and boring to me. I would much rather have a relationship with someone who can make me smile and someone who makes me happy than someone who is good at sex. Have realised this just now after getting back with my ex...she actually intrests me more than just physically, something that I've never had with any other person before.

Am I strange?

 

No you aren't strange. Meaningless sex is just that.... meaningless. I got tired of that long ago. When you are in a relationship and you actually care for the person who you're getting it on with the sex can actually get better.

Think about what the other person is feeling and what you are doing for them and soon it takes things to another level between you.

Good luck with your relationship

 

thats the problem with people now-a-days...everyones too busy having one night stands with everyone but theres no emotional attachment to go along with it.

ive only slept with one person and i enjoyed it while it lasted and that was nearly 2years ago! having sex with some random bird who you picked up from the pub on a fri/sat night wont give you that feeling you were asking for.

 

Now I know where fetishes come in..

.. He's right though, it DOES get boring after a while, which is why sex isn't a big deal for me.

 

Yes, yes you are.. I'll be tired of sex when I'm dead, preferably of it.

 

If you get bored of it I can only say your doing it wrong.

(but I agree it should be more emotionally then just pounding a piece of meat)

 

What kna said. Weirdo.

 

I see your point.

I once had this conversation over a year ago to a mate of mine who ran a pub and lived with his g/f, he said and I quote: "sex is boring, its more of a chore really, you get on top and pound away, then you have to clear up afterwards"

I replyed by saying that sex is never a chore, but TBH it can be, as much fun as it is, it can get boring, yeah you can spice it up a little, which is alsways fun. But mostly it is boring.

Regards
GiGo

 

if you do it with the right person, and there's feeling between you both there, it can certainly be enjoyable.
but in the grand scheme of things, its no big deal. would rather have a stimulating conversation with someone than a shag

 

Quoted for truth based around personal opinion.

 

cant we have both...a nice convosation then alot of "lovin" later on...that would be a perfect situation.

 

kinky bondage on the other hand. can't beat a bit of that.

 

Damn straight, some of the things I like to do would most likely give certain people a heart attack

 

I've been seeing my girlfriend since the end of july, and we do it lots and lots, wont go into details but we dont get sick/tired of it. foo!

 

The girl I'm with right now loves biting. I have big bruises all over my body and she's drawn blood on quite a few occasions. I find play like that far more fun than actual sex

 

QFT, except replace end of July with August.. 1994.

 

My ex liked me scratching the hell out of her back while she was on top.

Can't say I liked it, but I loved the other thing she wanted me to do, wont go into details on that though.

 

Well all you need is a little book (also comes illustrated) called Karma Sutra

 

abit of light spanking didnt go amiss with my Ex and some gentle biting.

 

Oh wow.. it's good to know that topics like this is open in this forum... Well.. for those who do sex , pleasure and love.. it will never be boring.. not of course if you do it every night.. sometimes your daily tasks.. gives you enough stress not to think of it anymore...