Okay, so I’ve been knocking about on this forum for years now, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that a lot of us are just winging it - whether it’s life, relationships, or figuring out why our latest project has somehow set itself on fire. For a long time, I thought I had my head screwed on. Turns out, not so much. Like a lot of blokes, I didn’t really clock how much my mental health played into everything—relationships, confidence, even basic stuff like looking after myself. I went through some rough patches, did a lot of overthinking (top-tier skill of mine), and eventually started digging into the psychology behind it all. What makes us tick? Why do we end up in the same loops? And more importantly, how the hell do we get out of them? So, I wrote a book. Not some dry, self-help fluff that tells you to manifest your dreams by thinking happy thoughts - because let’s be honest, if that worked, I’d be taller and rich by now. Instead, this is the book I wish I’d had when I was stuck in my own head, dealing with toxic relationships, and wondering if I was the problem. It’s blunt, it’s got a bit of humour, and it actually explains the science behind things like gaslighting, love bombing, and why some people seem to thrive on making your life a nightmare. If you’ve ever found yourself in a cycle of bad relationships, struggling with confidence, or just feeling stuck, this might be worth a read. At the very least, it’ll make you feel like you’re not the only one who’s been through it. https://amzn.eu/d/0ztG4Yz Appreciate all the support from this community over the years - wouldn’t be where I am without some of you lot. Cheers.
Haha thank you. It came from the want to write as though I am the average bloke - I am average height.. average wage... average sized house... average car... so why not be a Norm. L. Bloke?
