Sort of a lead on from "Dreams F**cking with my mind!!" thread were i was wondering why i kept dreaming about a girl i work with. Long story short i've been realizing im actually really into her... its not one of those "She's fit" and thats it jobs its one of the kind of girls you really have a connection with in terms of personality and stuff. Heres the deal we work rarely together... i mean like once a week if im lucky in college holidays probebly more she was ill for a long shift last weekend so i missed my chance to really see what was up... theres another one this weekend (if she is there ) but theres problems... Lately its been frustrating how i approach it heres a few problems i've come across - Does she have a boyfriend?? I've never heard her mention it at all she does'nt go to college so meeting up with any guys is probebly slim she does'nt go out much either from what i can tell (Like clubs and bars). She has no facebook, Myspace, Bebo or any of that ******** (which kinda makes her even more attractive ) neither msn or any other IM (That i know of) so talking to her outside of work is difficult - Does she like me at all? We get along well but im not sure if this is just her way as i said in a previous thread i see her looking at me and when i turn round she is almost always smiling, then theres my cheesy humour that no human being should find funny but she does.... See now some people are just generally like that but then others would say this is a sign of a attraction i find it hard to read girls... The last shift i tried to give her the indication i was in to her (without coming off to strong or obvious) and she took it a little bit we were much more comfortable around each other (we are already buy you know...) and it was pretty cool.. So you see my predicament either way its not something i want to jump in headfirst with if she does have a boyfriend ALTHOUGH: I would strongly say she does'nt... its just my instinct telling me but im pretty sure she does'nt else i think along the line i would have heard her mention it to someone or just drop it in with casual chat But then again if she is'nt really intrested then i don't want to do that either... Anyone got some advice how i could dig the dirt in a general conversation without coming across like i really want to know.... HALP MEH BIT TECH!!