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Other So I like this girl...(No more whining, Progress made!)

Discussion in 'General' started by DeadP1xels, 11 Jan 2011.

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  1. Cthippo

    Cthippo Can't mod my way out of a paper bag

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    Quickest way to find out:

    Her: Blah blah blah

    You: Wow, what does your boyfriend think about that?

    It's the perfect way to ask the question and indicate your interest in her without being threatening. You've giving her the option to say "He really likes it" which indicates she has one or to tell you she doesn't. Odds are, you'll get an honest answer because it's a more oblique question.
     
  2. knuck

    knuck Hate your face

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    We definitely need a thread to regroup them all
     
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  3. Carrie

    Carrie Multimodder

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    DeadP1xels hope you don't mind me putting my oar in but that's the easy bit.

    But think about trying out a radical approach, DON'T ask her to go on A DATE.

    I'm knackered so this is going to sound a bit garbled but this is really bugging you so here goes.

    As I see it you're shy, you work at the same place, sometimes, she's not unfriendly towards you but you'd like to know how much before you ask cos you don't want her to say no if you do and you still have to work with her if it doesn't come off. And you think if she has a boyfriend it'll be no anyway. Assuming that's right, take the pressure off you and the situation and consider this as an option:

    Make sure you've been busy and casually say (with a winning smile :hehe:) a couple of hours before the end of shift something like "After today I could do with a drink. If your boyfriend wouldn't mind, would you fancy a coffee/drink after work?" For someone wanting to know that it's out first before you forget to ask, without actually asking if she has one - if you see what I mean.

    It's casual, you should get the answer about the boyfriend. If she's got one and isn't interested she'll probably say something like "no he wouldn't". If she's not interested she might make one up:hehe:

    If she hasn't she'll tell you that if she's interested. Or if she says something like not today cos I'm ... (busy)... but another time ... (which she is likely to if she's interested) you'll have a reasonable idea. Then you can take it from there. Go for the casual drink, entertain her and then asking for a date if it's gone well will be easy.

    If she says no, and you've been casual about it, you've not actually asked her on a date, it was an invitation to a work colleague so there shouldn't be an a big issue working together in future!

    Think about it, hope it helps you some. Or of course I could be so tired I'm talking rubbish and hey what do I know, I'm only a female :hehe:
     
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  4. mvagusta

    mvagusta Did a skid that went for two weeks.

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    Exactly dude, nothing to lose, everything to gain. That's the way to becoming a confident guy, who isn't scared to do or say what he wants. You know, practice makes perfect, you'll never learn to ride a bike if falling down scares you, etc.

    That would be a good idea, and make it a sticky, to save us posting the same stuff over and over, and it would make it easy to find for any bit techer in need!

    This might not be in the sites best interests however, as if all modders start going out and getting some.... soon enough no-one will have much time, energy or money to throw away on case mods.
     
  5. wst

    wst Minimodder

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    How you doin'?


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  6. Carrie

    Carrie Multimodder

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    Go direct and if she says yes Great. Or if you're shy and it's a no, it won't help you one bit for next time! But either way do what's right for YOU!

    Now why does that old joke come to mind ... what's the definition of ausi foreplay ...:rolleyes:
     
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  7. confusis

    confusis Kiwi-modder

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    Somebody needs to group all these threads together and make a sticky of do's and don'ts for the masses. Just sayin'
     
  8. Teelzebub

    Teelzebub Up yours GOD,Whats best served cold

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    LMAO she's right you know :lol::lol::lol:
     
  9. Teelzebub

    Teelzebub Up yours GOD,Whats best served cold

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    Fixed that lol
     
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  10. Panomama

    Panomama I once signed up on uniform dating

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    I love a girl too, have done for almost a year.
    She has a 2 month old boyfriend - So I cannot make the move :'(
     
  11. Nealieboyee

    Nealieboyee Packaging Master!

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    You waited 10 months too long my friend......shoulda gone for it! What if she is together with this guy for 5 years? You going to wait?
     
  12. Panomama

    Panomama I once signed up on uniform dating

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    She's 14, doubt itll last that long :duh:
    Well - I can hardly ask her now..
     
  13. Nealieboyee

    Nealieboyee Packaging Master!

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    14? You won't wait long i guarantee it.
     
  14. Panomama

    Panomama I once signed up on uniform dating

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    ssssssssh... youll make me do it :duh: :p
     
  15. Unicorn

    Unicorn Uniform November India

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    If she's 14 I have news for you mate, that ain't her boyfriend... I think someone may have beaten you to it :hehe:

    And all joking aside, and even if she is only 14, if you think waiting a year is bad... oh never mind :rolleyes:
     
  16. Panomama

    Panomama I once signed up on uniform dating

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    :eyebrow:
     
  17. wst

    wst Minimodder

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    Foreplay's for losers, fiveplay's where it's at.
     
  18. Mitcian

    Mitcian What's a Dremel?

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    Oh not another one of these threads.....
     
  19. Unicorn

    Unicorn Uniform November India

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    Tell me you got the joke...
     
  20. Panomama

    Panomama I once signed up on uniform dating

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    the first one i did:thumb:
     
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