They are not doing any of these things, but it's nice to see you embrace the Daily Mail spirit. All that the parents are doing is let their child work out for itself whether it is a boy or a girl (a feat I managed all by myself by age two, despite the fact that I had no sisters for comparison), and that being a particular gender does not have to mean that you have to behave or dress in a particular way. But, you know, perhaps they sacrifice goats to Satan too, the weirdos. You just can't trust people who are different. So I'm all for Mankz' suggestion. Take those kids away from their parents and put them in a nice conservative family, where dad works at the office, sexually harassing the odd temp and getting pissed with his mates in the pub on Friday nights until a heart attack carries him away from his desk at fifty, and mom stays at home drowning her frustrated ambitions in sherry and Prozac like a sack of kittens in a river; a family that worships an imaginary deity at a church that promotes sexual frustration, homophobia, ideological intolerance, capitalism and misogyny and tacitly protects child-molesting priests because, like, what will the neighbours say if they find out? Yup, that's an environment where children learn some sound family values and important lessons about gender. Oh, and never, ever tell a child that it can be whatever it wants to be. Next you'll have girls wanting to be doctors, or something, and boys wanting to be nurses. The very idea.