Other What's ruining your life right now?

not sure if im going to make my court date with how im feeling,

i have had a migrane for 3 days now, my head constantly feels like its spinning. im struggling to maintain lucid thoughts. cant sleep, cant eat... im just a mess right now

and the court appearance is simply transferring it from the magistrates to the crown court...

just feel like my life is over

 

I came here to complain about small stuff in my life, but after reading a little about some other guys here (backtracked many pages), my problems are to small to care about.

Lilgoth89; I hope you soon reach the top of the mountain you have been struggling to get up lately, I have a friend that had a girl lie about her age, and when her parents found out they had been doing the horizontal tango, she was forced to call it rape and call the police.. so some girls are crazy on the 3rd floor...

Jake123456; I saw your post from march 16th about trying to end it, and I immediately started looking for newer posts from you, and I did not find any in this thread... in your profile it says that you are online today, so I really hope you have gotten out of the ditch and stuff is better.. please update.

So bottom line, my problems are so tiny compared to what you are up against, that I don't even feel like mentioning it anymore..

 

I don't know what your problems are so I will urge you to vent about them anyway. It may seem small to you but it is still affecting you. I myself felt that way about my own problems. Sometimes I felt that it would be selfish to ask for help when there are people who have it worse. Eventually I did and I am so much better for it. For other people they were living in a crappy situation and had pretty much accepted it as part of life. Once they did tell others about it they were helped to realise what's going on isn't a normal part of life. They then got help or changed things and are better now.
Point is. It may feel small compared to everything else and even selfish of you to vent or ask for help about it. But it still is affecting you. Maybe more than you realise. Don't be afraid or shy. Speak.

 

Walked in on my mum talking **** about me and my girlfriend. I know their relationship is dead but from you're own family is harsh.

I was invited to a BBQ by sympathy of still living with my parents and turned it down after plans came up with my gf. They only invited me because it seems rude else they don't want to cause trouble with me mum.

I'm so glad to be moving away, it's not until you step back do you see the poison in some people.

My dad is easily my best friend and he got angry about it, he's my guideline of being standard and normal and he found it unusual

 

Been having almost constant muscle twitch/fasciculation switching between the eyelids for the last 1,5 month or so, annoying as phuk...

 

It’s rather annoying knowing you can’t say crap because the wrong people might see it and use it against you.

 

No science backing here. But I've had that happen when I'm short on sleep or not getting quality sleep.

 

Yeah, that is the other part, I am tired and fall asleep everytime I have the chance..
starting to suspect sleep apnea or something..

 

Not having a PC at moment I so boring as stuck on ps4 lol

 

I shouldn't of posted that, isn't it sad when we live in fear from the people that are paid to support and protect our most vulnerable.

 

That might be narcolepsy. Sleep apnea is when you stop breathing whilst asleep.

 

Bah... After few interview processes and dozens of applications it seems like I am going to have one more year without a F*CKING JOB! HOW F*CKING GREAT! "GO STUDY THEY SAID! IT WILL BE FUN THEY SAID!". I am ****ing tired of being unemployed student for the third year, I've been out of money for last 8 months, I have genuine interest towards IT networks, but NO... I can't ****ing get single ****ing internship or any other piece of **** job on this country for whatever reasons ("We are not hiring", "Sorry we hired someone else who is more qualified/worked here before/sucks less than you/etc..."

4 year degree, and my third year is soon over. I feel like I'll just drop out and go travel the world with nothing just for the lulz...

Kinda have hope about one position, but the contact on the company haven't replied my email or answered to his phone for a week now (probably the classic case of; "let me hire these guys, take a few week vacation and not inform others that they didn't get the positions before I leave") so I am not really too hopeful about that...

Just can't understand what the f*ck I have to do to get even a simple job from a f*cking warehouse moving boxes.... Thou' on jobs like that they probably want someone who they can **** with the salary.

Sorry for my rude language that is full of typos and ****, I am just so ****ing tired of this that I am not even interested to take my CCNA3 exam tomorrow because it seems that I wont never need my ****ing CCNA certification in my life.

...maybe I am just stupid or some **** and nobody cared to tell me that.

 

I take it you wouldn't advise me going back to college in September to do ict then?

 

Different situation, entirely.

Finland's enconomy isn't doing too well, compared to the UK.

Unemployment is around 10%, I believe.

 

Google - Public data

The unemployment rate is probably higher in reality as unemployed students, etc. are not included in the data if I am correct.

Evolutionsic, there is nothing wrong in studying, just study what you like. If I could choose now (knowing that it is hard to get a ****ing job from IT because there is like ****-ton of people applying for the positions), I would probably dump IT and go for financial management degree that I have equal interest to as IT, or maybe even robotics. So seek what you really like and go for that, don't think about the fact will you get a job after graduation or not - IT seemed like the best bet on getting a decent job when I started Uni. Seems like I was wrong.

 

@Yariko, I can understand your struggle. I stopped working in 2011 for health reasons, graduated in June 2013, still unemployed now. I wasn't "over" my illness until 1/2 way through 2013. I've been applying like crazy, but haven't had much luck. I've got 1 more interview, and if it doesn't work out, I'm finding some part-time work, even if its for crap pay. I just need something.

On Friday I had a bit of a breakdown, started freaking out, got a bit hysterical, ended up having my mom call me to calm me down. I want to find a job, I believe I have valuable skills, and I'm motivated, but I just can't seem to find my opportunity. After being turned down for a job where I thought I had my best interview ever, I was kind of shattered. My mom helped talk me down but I spent a good 30 min before talking to her freaking, and another 10-15 afterwards. I'm fortunate enough to not have any debts (school, etc.) and I still live at home. If I had to support myself as a recent graduate, I honestly don't know how I would do it.

If I had the option to go back, I would have taken the same program, BUT I would have gone for the co-op, or started job hunting as soon as I graduated, instead of waiting 1/2 a year. As of now, after talking to my mom, I've kind of "screwed my head back on". Next weekend I'm going to write my g1 drivers license again (I let my original expire since I was terrified of driving), and I followed up on my last interview asking for some feedback so that I can be more prepared for this weeks. If not, I'm going to talk to my dad and see if he can get me a job at the local grocery store he works at. He was able to get my sister a cashier position with no hastle, so hopefully they may still have something available.

 

Oh I'm OK mate, I should of came back to the thread and explained everything.

To cut a long story short, I got counselling and I've given up alcohol (Excessive amounts of it) to help with my anger and impulsive reactions.

I have to say, life feels pretty darn awesome right now.

But share your problems, that's the one bit of advise I can give someone who is having ****. Share your problems, because I know somewhere out there will listen and do their up most best to help you.

The world isn't as harsh as people make it out to be, there is some good souls out there.

I should really apologize to all the people in the UK Market thread too, which I ****ed over. I was in a really crappy place, and shouldn't of really started taking the responsibility of selling items when I couldn't look after myself.

 

Glad to hear that you have not logged off life 1.0.
My sisters ex husband and father of her 3 kids did that.. and it sucked big-time for everybody involved..

 

My friend's husband is still threatening to do the same. I'm afraid the alcoholic **** might actually do it. Can't imagine how much (more) it would ruin her life and that of her 3 kids if he does become the boy who cried wolf.

 

I wonder what leads to such things with people who have family. It sure can't be just alcohol.