I think you should worry about other things right now. You have a funeral to attend to, and a family to spend time with. The brutal truth is that the girl can wait. If she want to see you again she will anyway. And if she can't accept that you have enough to think about right now, she may not be worth keeping. So, just try not to think about it, and let things "evolve" a bit on their own. Having that said, I'm no expert. But I think that's what I could do in that situation.
Well that is what I plan on doing, I am going to get the current things sorted, let my heart heal up a bit, then send the letter.
you're doing ok. There are people living in more hell than you. Just that when the worst things happen, people don't tend to feel like broadcasting them on the internet to complete strangers. now quit complaining and be happy thing's aren't worse.
Yes well if you had you will have seen that I just wanted to get this off my chest and now my attention is focused to obtaining advice to see how i can remedy something. Yes i know people have worse things going on than I do. I don't doubt that. This is just one of my outs, which happens to be broadcasting it to complete strangers. Everyone is different.
I don't quite understand this kind of attitude. According to your logic, we should let people suffer just because somewhere someone is in a worse situation. It's better to let people talk about their problems, and maybe offer some advice. It's not like somebody is FORCING you to read it. Sometimes it may help to know that somebody out there is listening.
The strange this is, most people refuse to talk to total strangers on the street about the most mundane things (the weather, the state of the country, etc). Yet, in 2 days, I've seen 2 different threads where people need to get personal matters off their chest. And this is why I love this forum. Everyone is supportive, friendly and helpful. C, I can't say I know how you feel, cause I don't (no-one does). But I have been in a similar situation, and I know how low I felt, and how alone. But remember, you have all your friends and family (and us) to talk to and we'll all help you out. 'Cause, what are friends for?
That's the great things about the internet in general. You can open up a lot easier to complete strangers on a forum where no one really knows who you are in real life. That's why it's much more easier to open up, because there is no face, person etc. who this guy will need to meet behind our user names.
Well I am off to the funeral until sunday, If you guys know of any more ideas I could try, please just jot them down in this thread. As said before, I am going to worry about my other issues first, then worry about the girl. And who knows, maybe I will get a phone call within the next month from her and be able to get back together... only time will tell. Thank you everyone who gave me ideas on what to do and those who listened. It does show what a great community of people BT really is.
Well to give you guys an update, the letter opened up the true reason why things happened. "The spark just disappeared." So we will go our separate ways but still be friends in the end.
