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Where do you draw the line on a bux or a hens night?

Discussion in 'General' started by mvagusta, 28 Sep 2008.

  1. mvagusta

    mvagusta Did a skid that went for two weeks.

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    As per the title, what's the acceptable limit for you?

    Having a family dinner with your parents, followed by scrabble or monopoly?

    Going to the local bingo and flirting with a couple of the grandma's?

    Going bunjee jumping or skydiving or on a race track day or something like that?

    Going to the pub with the boys, getting a little pissed, play some pool, darts, maybe even place some bets on horses or dogs?

    Going to a strip joint afterwards?

    Going to back to the pub and getting a drunk girl in the back seat of your car, or on the beach, or just going to a brothel?

    I've just got a few suggestions listed here, but feel free to add your own if mine don't cover your ideal bux or hens night.
    The most important thing, is where do you draw the line between acceptable fun, and unacceptable behaviour for someone about to get married?
     
  2. ch424

    ch424 Design Warrior

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    tbh I don't think going to a strip joint/sleeping with a random drunk person is a decent thing to to regardless of if it's your stag/hen night or not...
     
  3. RTT

    RTT #parp

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    Sounds about right. Strip clubs are never respectable places to go
     
  4. Shadow_101

    Shadow_101 Mudkips.

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    Strip Club. Anything past that gets a bit dodgy.
     
  5. mvagusta

    mvagusta Did a skid that went for two weeks.

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    I just went to a bux night where the groom to be spent all night at the strippers, and was nearly at third base with the girls for most of the time, and then topped the night off with 2 hours at a brothel :eyebrow:
     
  6. ozstrike

    ozstrike yip yip yip yip

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    I've never seen the attraction to that sort of thing anyway tbh. I choose just going to the pub.
     
  7. Pha3dr0n

    Pha3dr0n Where's my Valium?

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    Anything goes as long as you don't get caught :worried:
     
  8. mikeuk2004

    mikeuk2004 What you Looking at Fool!

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    Whats a bux night?
     
  9. identikit

    identikit Minimodder

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    doh double post.
     
  10. identikit

    identikit Minimodder

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    Stag!

    Edit: Sorry, imagine a dozen drunk blokes shouting 'Stag!'
     
  11. DougEdey

    DougEdey I pwn all your storage

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    When would the Bride give you a trouncing?
     
  12. mikeuk2004

    mikeuk2004 What you Looking at Fool!

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    Agh right, is it an australian word for stag?? I have never come across Bux before.
     
  13. Malvolio

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    Anything beyond that is going way too far. Even then, if the board-game gets a bit too unreasonable, then I would have to say call it quits for the night. :D
     
  14. EmJay

    EmJay What's a Dremel?

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    Talk to your fiance about it. Stop short of getting yourself in trouble. If you can't work that out, you are not ready to be married.

    Me, I like the pub, couple of drinks, pool, etc. idea. I don't need to get crazy or stupid to have fun. Sex is reserved for the spouse, so no strippers/drunks/whores, and I'd leave a friend's party where that was happening.

    (For those lost in translation: I'm assuming we're talking about bachelor/bachelorette parties here? The 'last' big bash with friends of the same gender before a wedding? Word to the wise, if your idea of a good time involves a hangover the next morning - make sure that happens a couple of days before the wedding, not the night before!)
     
  15. modgodtanvir

    modgodtanvir Prepare - for Mortal Bumbat!

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    I would suggest noting more than a drunk night out with the lads - though I'd probably end up in a strip club knowing me... :p

    And I agree, make sure its a few nights before the wedding. Also, just out of curiosity Emjay, are you a lad or a ladette?
     
  16. Major

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    Considering women normally pay for strippers (and sometimes given em a HJ etc), there is nothing wrong with going to a strip club.
     
  17. EmJay

    EmJay What's a Dremel?

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    Ladette. I'm a little surprised no-one asked before now. ;)

    Um. I'm sure some women do. But I wouldn't go drawing generalities there. Again, if you and your betrothed can't discuss and come to an agreement about what's acceptable and what's off limits, you REALLY shouldn't be getting married.
     
  18. identikit

    identikit Minimodder

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    I hadn't come across the term before either.

    Wait, you get paid to take your clothes off AND get a hand job?! Where do I sign up?
     
  19. Cthippo

    Cthippo Can't mod my way out of a paper bag

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    Agreed with above. You need to set boundries with your sig0ot before hand

    In general terms I would say stripper -ok, hooker -not ok.
     
  20. modgodtanvir

    modgodtanvir Prepare - for Mortal Bumbat!

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    Knew it :rock: You seemed quite put off by the idea of a guy getting with another woman when he was due to be betrothed... whilst most lads wouldn't be :p


    There is definitely a limit to how much 'fun' you should be allowed to have...Getting with a hooker doesn't sound like a good idea at all - maybe the girl should specify which strip club he goes to... the Spearmint Rhino is probably more professional than your typical dark and dusty strip joint...

    I know of one individual to tried to sail across the channel in a dingy on his stag night (I'm sure he was drunk... :lol:).
     

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