I think the problem with stag nights is that people treat them as a "last night to have fun before I'm married" party. As if you can't have fun when you're married. If you'd rather go to strip joints and be devious then why are you getting married? If I were engaged I would have a "yay I'm getting married" party; rather than an "omg I actually have to spend my life with this person, quick, this is my last chance to have fun" party. But what the hell do I know.