well errrmmm i'm in "love" (prolly lust, though feels like love, but then to everyone its different as no one can dictate how someone feels, not even science). been in love and all dat for last 2 years. shes really hot, clever, fun, cool, cheeky, bratty and is intrested in the things i like and some of my kinks We get on well. its all cool. ive had my love for her broadcast over the Radio 1 RDS system (RDS is the thingy that can display the current song on the radio or the current presenter current station and crap, i.e. it displays more than the bandwith(for those who don't know)) prolly quite lucky that she nor her friends say that or i coulda taken this pill sooner. anyhow, for whatever stupid daft reason my bloody hormones have been acting up recently (could be my going from 16 to 17). my feelings have become stronger, my hairs got split ends (should i be worried by this), ive had summer cold (yucky), ive lost intrest in pr0n (hardcore, softcore is getting to me these days, though still keep a healthy young male intrest in it), ive spent more time downloading mp3's, ive been acting a fool, ive tried to be cool around her and such, i'm getting jealous when other guys who like her try and flirt with her. so here we come to sunday (prolly by the time i finish this post it will be monday, but..... i digress) for whatever insane reason i have decided to get up at 7am to stalk her (please note the getting up at 7am is the insane part). ok stalking is prolly too harsher a word. I'm gonna sit outside a bus stop which is prolly 30meters from her house (i hope this thing has a bench, i haven't checked it out, and it better not be wet, bloody welsh weather). So on her way to skool (god damn i hope they goto skool and its still not study week otherwise i'll be there a long time so if you don't hear from me its down to one of 2 reasons, cyanide or study week) i'll trot up along side her, and she'll be sorta shocked, which means i need a cover story that doesn't involve "the FBI suspect youre a terrorist, and they asked me to spy on you". i'll have to work on the that bit (hell i need to work on the next bit). So after you know the "why are you stalking me" bit comes the (Jaz)"Will you go out with me" bit then the (girl)"errrrrr no" (runing away action). See normally i'm the idiot of the group (not in the dumb guy don't know what 2+2 is, but as the fun dude, who can make ppl laugh, isn't embarrsed to ask old ladies what type of knickers they have on), but when it comes to the women, i'm just a shy man. women have a hold of power over me which they shouldn't have (me man, you woman, me kill you cook and clean ). So like i'm feeling like yes i can do this, but i'm also feeling like, no f-ing way matey. but i only feel like this in a love sense, in a mate sense i'm cool with women, i treat them like one of the lads, which they are, its cool. so thats the story i just needed to get it out. no one i know goes here, god damn it i hope not, if they do errrmm, go look at the latest mrhaz review
hmmm....nothing is ever lost... take her out for drinks and when youre both really drunk ask her out...it makes it easier....
hey jsut go up to her & say that you find ehr very attractive & you liker her a lot & would she like to see a movie at yours or @ the cinema (depending which place has the better setup & the comyest seats) or offer to buy her lunch just the 2 of you say on a bench in town centre, start talking find out what she is really into & just work it into the conversation that you really like her
Never ask a girl out to go the movies unless you go to see somethin like Amalie that you can break down and discuss for hours afterwards. It's awful social interaction, offer to take her out for a coffee or a drink, never the Movies... Hmmmmkay?
I have to agree with Kaneda, women want you to be interested in them... to listen to what they have to say, to ask questions about themselves... you can't do that in a movie theatre. Take her for a coffee or even better a romantic meal at that fancy new restaurant in town.. and for the love of god don't talk at her for 4 hours straight or you'll have to wake her up at the end of the date, and that's never a good sign
i alwasy bring them to my house as they seem to like it when the see how much i care for animals (as in my dog comes sprinting up to meet them) & i have mastered the basics of cooking (those toster thingies youcan cook propper food in are fantastic) that & they loe it when you physically stop the movie you were watching to pay them attention
hahahahaha i cant believe u dont have the balls to ask her ( just saying positive critosisim ( cant spell ) ) they make a good point ask her for coffe and lunch never goto the movies untill ur in the relationship with her and u plan to not whatch the movie and spend it sucking her face off always pay unless she offers ( chicks luv a guy with dosh ) and be cool about ur self i mean the worst thing that could happen is u end up as mates or she slaps u
i took my gf to the movies for a first date, and im still with her nearly 1 yr after! moving away soon, giving up my braodband to go to the same uni as her... must be love
Yeah but you prolly already knew this person right? If I just went up to some girl on the street and did that it'd be a crap date... General rule of thumb, naymasayn?
lol, thanks guys you gave me lots of new information about the human female race which is for us guys mostly mystical... ain't it? Well 2 weeks ago I was sitting at this bar with about 10 friends (both sexes) and after an hour or two this other (female) friend got into the circle and she had 2 american girls with her (one 18, one 16). Well we didn't meet or anything, they just sat there and talked to the friend as we didn't really cared to talk english. After a while I got really drunk, and my friends talked me into sitting next to the one of 18 which was a really hot cuty (my friends told me this afterwards, as I couldn't remember it anymore ). Then they told me to kiss her what I did, and surprisingly she agreed and we kissed and kissed and then we went for a walk, kissing every 10 feet or so. A friend took a picture of us so I can see how she really looked like (hehe). But it was really surprising as it was the first time I ever kissed. So I think being really drunk can sometimes be an advantage (and now I'm the "casanova" of our "gang" because I'm the only one who ever kissed a hot girl that was 2 years older than me hehehe)
grrr ppl who do that are soo transparent... theres someone in my school who does that and blanks ppl he doesn't think are cool enough when she is around... basically he acts like a complete pillock when she's around and she ain't even interested act yourself! really bad misspelling there
Alaric, it depends on what type of cool he means; 1. You've got your Pimp Daddy type of cool...:dude: and then, 2. You've got your laid back relaxed kind of cool But yeah the first type is kinda false and women can spot it a mile off...
okkkk well it didn'y go ahead cause they still have study week and spending a week at a bus shelter 30meters or whatever from her house didn't feel like a good idea. anyhow alairc, youve got the wrong meaning. i don't blank ppl. i meant cool as in well i dunno what i meant. the ppl i hang with i never blank cause i have a real good strong relationship with them all. i meant cool i guess as in the opposit of in your face perverted freakazoid i normally am. i've toned down a bit more, though i'm still a freakazoid if shes there or not. its just less perverted these days.
oh yeah, i goto a diff skool/college from all my mates these days so its always good to catch up every sat or every day of the hols. its all respect
