A question that has dogged me for some time now... Do you think that love is exclusive? What I mean is, do you think it is possible to love more than one person at the same time. Many of my friends say it is impossible as love is a two person affair, I disagree... What's your opinion?
No I think in a situation where there is more than one person, one of them always get a kind of preferential treatment, and the feelings for the other aren't lost, rather, subdued, and one could lust one person but really love the other... Conciously you may think that you love both but in actuality when it comes to the crunch you will always find yourself with one more than the other, or if they find out begging to one to take you back, less than t'other
Suppose if its possible to love/fall in love with one person then it rings true that it is possible to love/fall in love with more than one person.
My God, that is subjective! IMO, there is a difference between loving someone and being 'In Love' with someone. Therefore, one that basis, it would be possible to love one person yet be in love with other people or vice versa. I also believe that there is a huge difference in loving someone and that person being 'The One'. As such, I am in a little bit of a quandry as atm I don't believe in fate as such, but would like to. Does that then mean that I do actually believe in Fate! Therefore, what I suppose I am saying is that although I am with someone I love, I do not believe she is the one, and am falling in love with other people all the time in the hope that they could be! Ok, now I am losing even myself!