No no, this book is better suited.... http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos...26536/sr=2-1/ref=sr_2_3_1/026-9892916-8852460
Uh, a little OT but... You're "hoping" that you'll be more than friends? It looks to me that she's feeling the same way when she says stuff like that my boy... The female species tend to "beat around the bush" as it were and throw out subtle hints like that.
aaaaw, thanks dad but I don't know, what if she doesn't means anything with that, and she's just curious?
Relix, Check ur email, I mailed u my idea... (used ur profile, hope the email-adress is still used) L
She gave you a teddy bear.... She asks if you imagine her when you hug it... Yea, in my book those are hints. How long have you known her? Is she seeing anyone now or recently? Actually, has she been with anyone since she gave you the teddy bear? Is she more "touchy feeley" with you more than anyone else? Does she play with her hair when she talks to you? Those are strong indications that she's warm for you form
Yeah I'm thinkin the same as Dad, but i'm most likly like you relix, not to sure what to make of it. I got me ex ex ex g/f for xmas a watch which looked very expensive and came with a nice price tag (£95 - with stratic telling of friends it gets around) but really only cost £12.50 was a good deal! It was infact real silver, obv not the best in the world! But it really did work her parents were impressed, the name of the watches are Vialli, very cheap, nice looking, nice build qaulity aswell! Think the most expensive I got for my ex ex g/f was 12 red roses for valintines day, £71.50 from Intaflora! Lets just say that paid off Um.. what to get my new/sort of g/f Also try getting a single rose aswell, think that'll go really far! Um... better search the nieghbourhood for sumones roses Good luck mate, might be an idea if you ask her out soon, sounds like she wants you!
Unless its a special day or something, IMO one single red rose it better than a whole bunch. I can't really explain it entirely, its just how I feel.
*eddie_dane at work* click link--- oh--- close window, close dammit... then cry laughing and tell everyone who asks what's so funny to shutup and go back to work.
Relix, just don't go crazy spending money on someone to try and impress them. Also unless you're REAL serious (like engaged or already married), don't spend too much on a gift. When you're young, g/f's come and go no matter how you feel about each other in the beginning. I agree with sinizterguy about the single rose. If you want to "test the waters", get her a single, perfect long-stem RED rose give it to her and tell her the following... "I wanted to give you something as beautiful as you, but had to settle for this rose".
BAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Glad there are 6' walls around my cubicle! Talk about an interesting "hand book"!
Indeed.... bit it went more along the lines of... hover over link to make sure it's not pointing to dirtypornobooksrus.co.uk, see it's amazon.co.uk, think yeh ok... click link.... EEEERP!!! Close quickly. and hope for the best!
well, she's the first girl to be this "touchy" with me, but she does that with everyone. lol, but sometimes she uses them really funny ways, like, in one class she sits in front of me, and next to her is a boy, also one of her friends, and then she always touches him to make me jealous (well, like she paws him over the head or shoulders and then look at me like "now, wouldn't you looooveee to be this guy"), it always makes me laugh what she doesn't do with everyone however is playing with her boobs to make me confused no really, she does that, a lot. The problem is, if she would love me, she wouldn't do that kind of things, would she? I know her for a couple of years now, and since she gave me the teddy she hasen't seen anyone. Although that may be a good sign, I once asked her who she loved and she said noone (that was a month ago).... I haven't noticed any "play-with-the-hair" stuff either, I'll check on that next time I see her, but I guess not. We call each other regularly and stuff too, and when her grandma died she wanted me to promise her I wouldn't die before she did (she wasn't laughing, she was serious). But, those are all things normal friends would do anyway... For more info please refer to the pathetic-relix thread: http://forums.bit-tech.net/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28249&highlight=love
Uh, not 100% sure what you're meaning here. I'm picturing different things. What do you mean "playing" with them (without being too graphic)? As far as the touchy thing goes, many women are touchy. I'm talking about running her hand down your arm, putting her hand on your leg if you sit togeather, caressing your neck, things like that. Those are sub-consious signals she's using to inform other women to "stay away, your her's"... Doesn't mean jack. Remember the #1 rule with women, they beat around the bush and will never give you a straight answer.
errrr... well, lol, she literally supports them with her hands and then lifts one up and one down, and then switches, while following with her head, like doing some kind of dance or something she does this all the time when we're walking next to each other (well, if I understand you correctly) she's done this one time again one time, on the bus when she was sitting behind me, both very tired, it was very weird, but great moment. We just talked, and then we both got silent, facing our heads to each other, and she was like, erm, gently scratching my neck I hope you're right about the last thing edit: and damn this quote-stuff took lots of time
Uh, okay.... Got me on that one. Not sure what's going on with that... I'm 95% sure that she already considers you her boy-friend, but it's not "official". With all that touching stuff goin on, it's as close to a lock as you can get. My advice, do the rose thing I suggested earlier. Do it in a secluded area - not at school or a mall or anything like that. Go to a park or beach, find an area that's not crowded and use that as the background. Dress nice, but don't over-dress, jeans are okay as long as they don't have holes and such. Wear either a button down or golf shirt. When you give her the rose, hold it in one hand, take her hand with your free hand, look straight in her eyes and tell her what I said.
you give me new hope dad what's a button down? I don't like golf shirts I dunno if I have the guts to do that tho
I just picture him taking her to the side of a lake, sitting down with her, he's dressed all nice, her wrists smell like two different scents, he pulls the rose from behind his back, she's shocked, she has this wonderful look of surprise, he reaches out, gently takes her hand, slowly look up into her eyes, he stares for just a second and then opens his mouth to speak, before a word can come out though yesterday's dinner comes flying out all over her, he gets up and runs away.....she's just sort of sitting there caked in vomit. at least that's what I would do, I get pretty nervous about stuff like that.