Right I'm going out with this girl (at least I think I am... ) ...yet she seems to be getting on really well with one of my house mates Shes currently sitting on his lap in his room on their own... How should I react?
suggest a threesome... wait. its not quite as 'enjoyable' with two guys.... unless you swing that way but seriously: shes clearly a flirt and looking for someone, not in the least caring who, what, or when. It appears shes found someone she likes better.... ?
I have good reason to think shes going out with me If he tries it on, he will be getting a broken nose and will wish he didn't live in this place anymore...
tbh. its not the guys fault if shes comming on to him. Shes the instigator - thefore the problem. Guys will be guys and, correct me if I'm wrong, but would kill there own mother for some... uh... *otherword for kitty cat*
the worst thing you could do is ask her about it, has she had a few to drink? Women don't like been asked things that make them think when the are drunk... Btw, you need to close the size bracket properly in your sig.
mmmm Alizee, soooo nice Some girls seem to flirt really badly, but then also claim not to, it's really odd but if you accuse them of flirting (when they blatently are) they get really defensive. They may just be a bit odd, if she' one of those you'll get used to it, I know one who's making another mates relationship not to good ... which is fun. if she doesn't take kindly to being called flirtacious or doesn't regard herself as such then you may have such an odd creature yourself... Alaric.
actually I remember a report on that women are generally regarded as somewhat less flirty and less like to do it with a guy but some scientists figured out that because of the number of guys who did not lie when under a lie detector about having straight sex often being so high, women must be the same way. When women were just told they were under a lie detector, the number of guys they had slept with in a given time period doubled or tripled. Something about them not wanting to be labeled sluts or whores.
my advice would be to first off find out exactly where you stand with her, cuz if you're not going out, doing the jealous boyfriend trick would make you look like a real ass. secondly, watch what's going on, because that kind of thing can escalate to the point where you have 3 people feeling pretty uncomfortable around each other, trust me on this one. been in the same sort of situation, only i was the other guy. we got a little carried away one night, but we all managed to work everything out(atleast on the surface, and they stayed together for 6 months or so after that) with in a week or two.
Have to agree with a few of these chaps. You have to live with your housemate for the next year or so. So unless she's wife material or at least suitable for a serious relationship - she's not worth the hassle.. worst you can do is ask her whats going on On a seperate note... it's Zakynthos, not Zykinthos
