When I was younger I was playing Age of Empires I & II all the time and I *think* (I could have distorted the memory to make myself feel better ) I was pretty good at it. Even if I wasn't, I could still finish a game. Now I can't even do that. I'm a turtler. I don't like to rush or go on the offensive before I have a chance at destroying the enemies whole base. I know this isn't ideal but as I won't be playing online (until I can beat the AI on the hardest difficulty in whatever RTS I'm playing, so I never play online.. lol) I should be able to manage it. The problem (other than being a turtler in games where you really can't turtle) is that if the enemy gets inside my base (which isn't very hard as I tend to make offensive units much too late) and it looks like I might loose I just think 'eh, failure' and quit. Are there any RTS's that would suit my play style or do you have any tips which would help me stop this silly behavior?