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Considering seeing an escort. Right or Wrong, or neither Thoughts?

Discussion in 'Serious' started by AcidJiles, 5 Oct 2010.

  1. memeroot

    memeroot aged and experianced

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    Completely up to you - it can help with all levels of the autistic spectrum.
    Makes a huge difference for me in my life and if I fall of the wagon so to speak it's very clear.
    However for others it provides no benefit.
    Funny and not terribly well understood this Autism thing in my view.
     
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  2. AcidJiles

    AcidJiles Minimodder

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    What position do you place yourself on the spectrum?

    Norm-----Atypical-----Aspergers-----HighFunc------LowFunc
     
  3. memeroot

    memeroot aged and experianced

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    Aspergers.

    But for me it was diet related and having changed that (and aged) I don't think I display the symptoms now.

    If something does incorrectly enter my diet I have to be more careful with my behaviour or take a day off work.

    I dont say that this will help you, but It's possibly worth trying.
     
  4. uz1_l0v3r

    uz1_l0v3r What's a Dremel?

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    One night stands are invariably unsatisyfing and unedifying. I can't imagine sex with a prostitute being much better. First of all, I can't imagine having sex with no kissing, foreplay or intimate touching and caressing. Sex is so much more to me than just sticking my dick inside a woman. Also, it's very important for me to be able to pleasure a woman in as many ways as possible. I love cunnilingus and can do it for as long as necessary, but there's no way I'd go down on a prostitute.
     
  5. AcidJiles

    AcidJiles Minimodder

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    Currently still deciding on my action but with some escorts you get a GFE (girl friend experience) which is the kissing, foreplay, you pleasuring them etc.
     
  6. GregTheRotter

    GregTheRotter Minimodder

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    ^ not really. You get the friends with benefits experience. Doing that to a gf is probably a tad more intimate ;)
     
  7. talladega

    talladega I'm Squidward

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    Well if you do it, go to a top dollar one and do the GFE.






    and take pics
     
  8. ShakeyJake

    ShakeyJake My name is actually 'Jack'.

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    Yes.

    No.
     
  9. memeroot

    memeroot aged and experianced

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    " First of all, I can't imagine having sex with no kissing, foreplay or intimate touching and caressing."

    thats because you're not married lol
     
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  10. 1-0-1

    1-0-1 Nothing interesting to put here.

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    You seeing somebody to work through your Aspergers? And on a lighter note - if I look at the the signs and symptons:

    • Engaging in one-sided, long-winded conversations, without noticing if the listener is listening or trying to change the subject
    • Displaying unusual nonverbal communication, such as lack of eye contact, few facial expressions, or awkward body postures and gestures
    • Showing an intense obsession with one or two specific, narrow subjects, such as baseball statistics, train schedules, weather or snakes
    • Appearing not to understand, empathize with or be sensitive to others' feelings
    • Having a hard time "reading" other people or understanding humor
    • Speaking in a voice that is monotonous, rigid or unusually fast
    • Moving clumsily, with poor coordination
    • Having an odd posture or a rigid gait

    I would say 80% of the people around me that I meet daily have Aspergers :p .
     
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  11. Cthippo

    Cthippo Can't mod my way out of a paper bag

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    Agreed. The experience is about more than just sex, and someone who might care and try to make it a little bit special would be a good thing. Unfortunately with this sort of thing it's hard to find ratings and reviews.

    Friends with benefits sucks. OK, it's better than nothing, but still I would really like to have a relationship I could believe in and be excited by for a change </whining>
     

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