Other Sooooo I slept with a good friend last night

FEMALE

bit of a weird one. we ended up coming back to my flat after a night out, nothing particularly strange about that, we're mates. then a few more drinks, one thing leads to another. Oh dear.

whats bothering me most is keeping this secret tbh. already told two peeps that i know i can trust, but it would not be good for me if this were to get out.

Anyways she's a cool girl and reasonably experienced with this kind of thing so i doubt her heart is bleeding or owt and i cant see her getting all doe eyed over me tbh.

so mainly ok i guess........considering. opinions?

 

so ... you're bragging?

 

pretty much. jealous?

 

And what exactly it is your wanting opinions on? Whether to bang in the back door? Keep it to one night? Start dating? Whether or not the world is infact flat (which is blatently is)?

 

just thought i'd start a thread, maybe get some similar stories. let everyone know i've had intercourse

its defo a one night affair. how its going to be socially though i have no idea

 

Yes!
I can't get the girl I want to sleep with me, but then again I only really see her at work and I'm not doing it in the freezer!

"impressed?"
"Not at all"
"Hey, it's cold in here"

ninja edit: haha, Crompers, you're going to go on my kind-of-awesome list soon

 

Pics or it didn't happen

 

Well heres the worlds smallest medal. Well done on losing your virginity.......

 

or vids, you know ... either!

 

Why is that?
Other than that question, I too congratulate you on losing your virginity. That is all.

 

ah the old "girl at work" scenario. one of the most difficult i reckon. if you make a ***** of yourself you cant exactly avoid her!

get the digits first mate, then a few amusing texts in the evenings. its a good start, and you dont have to look like a ***** in work trying to hit on her in front of everyone

 

thanks, im 24 so its been long time coming

its the friendship group, one of my very good friends quite likes her and has for a while. so ima look like a real rat if i say "oh we hooked up but im not bothered about seeing her again". not good on two counts


EDIT: apologies for double post

 

We do have an outside of work relationship, she rings me most nights as it is but I think it's the most confusing thing I've ever entered myself into! I may be a part of it but I have no clue what's going on!

 

Is that a polite way of saying she sleeps around a lot?

 

@Dave

Sounds like a situation you need to grab by the balls before you become (den den derrrrrrrn) just good friends

@smc8788

spot on there buddy

 

Tears, ends in, always.

 

haha well placed vid there.

tbh though i see no issue with just doing what you want to do, as long as no-one gets hurt. i find it very easy to separate the emotional from the physical

EDIT: what always ends in tears? intercourse? sure you're doing it right?

 

It ONLY ends in tears if you're doing it right!

On-topic, if this girl's as blase with her vagina as you say, then there's no biggie. Of course, YOU may end up feeling differently for her. That one, we can't help you out with a lot.

And, pray tell, if neither of you are bothered about your shenanigans, and just friends, what was the conversation like before the act?

"So, fancy a drink?"
"Uh, OK. Can we have sex too?"
"Umm... Yeah, why not?"
"Meh, OK then..."

 

you have no idea how close this is to what happened