I'm not convinced that it isn't your ex winding you up, pulling your strings to make you think that it is someone else. After all, no pics or other personal details to corroborate her story. Either that or Big Dave. In any case I'd be saying no to kids or coffee to be honest. I see a 2 step process required here. 1. Block 2. Move on
Doesn't matter if she's hot - DON"T. I once thought that crazy hot is ok hot. I still have the scar from that – literally! you have been warned!
+1 On-topic: This topic is a joke, you'd be stupid as **** to have a child with someone you didn't know. If you can get a leg over without the baby then fair enough but anything else is just ridiculous madness.
"She's" either a dude (yanking your chain) or a complete horror show. If it is a girl, "She's" probably already sitting on 5 kids and looking for number 6 to afford the new extension on her council house.
Now come along Bit-Tech, we are up to 4 pages on this thing now and not a single mention of Big Mike...... You guys are slipping...